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30-35,
*nonimous chick
writes:I know this might sound like reeally really wrong, cuz it kinda is, but i kinda have this massive , lustful, crush for one of my teachers, and another reason why its wrong is that theres quite a big age gap, hes 29 n im 16.... He flirts with almost every girl in school, and somehow i like it when he flirts at me.... its weird. Hes constantly looking at me when i pass by him, like in a way when a guy checks a girl out..... what do i do?? xD
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): I seriously doubt he's flirting with you. I've only had a few male teachers so far, and I've noticed that everyone does the same thing. They tease. It's not flirting. It's just a way of letting the students know that . . . he knows? I don't know how to explain it. But looking at you is not flirting, for sure. Like anonymous said, confront him if you still strongly believe he's flirting. Because that could get him in a lot of trouble. Stupid society.
Good luck.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Its hormones dear.
Stop looking at him, his "flirting" is his way of being nice.
You obviously like the attention, but next time you think hes flirting, remember that hes an adult in a pisition of authority and you are basically a child in his eyes.
He proberly knows you fancy him and doesnt want to embaress you by saying anythin unusual.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 You may see no problem with a 29 year old man flirting with his students, but most of the world does see the problem. So should he.
If I were you, I would not go for this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): you know that it is illegal for a teacher to go out with a student. i used to have teacher like that and they are always messing. it is sometimes a male teacher's only way of being nice to female student.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): Are you sure he's flirting with you? In what way is he flirting with you? If he is it is not suitable behaviour and he should know better. If this is actually the case he could get in a lot of trouble.
I know you can't help having a bit of a crush and there's nothing wrong with that. What would be wrong is acting on those feelings. If this teacher is being innapropriate i suggest you don't encourage him because if he is of bad moral character you don't want things to go further.
He could lose his job and get in a lot of trouble. I suggest you distance yourself from him because no good can come of something like this. Crushes always fade in time and the more you distance yourself and start liking boys your own age the quicker you'll forget about this teacher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): Stop and ask him what he's looking at, or stop and say did you have a question for me, or need help with something, I noticed you were looking t me, were you trying to get my attention?? Go from there...in other words politely confront him and see what he says.
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