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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Opinions on my boyfriend and I's age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and he's 27. When we are together, age is not an issue. We have a heck of a lot in common, and we are each very dedicated to making our relationship work. I will be telling my Mum about us soon, but before I do, I'd really apprecia...

Is age REALLY a problem???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is 15 and I'm 23, is this perfectly okay (although we have said no 2 sex until she is old enough) we are both very much in love she means the world to me. ...

How can I let go without feeling like I am putting his kids on the street?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - 30 years old and have been divorced for 2 years now. I have 3 children 12,10,6. I met this guy who is 44 years old and has 4 children 16 year old twin boys, 13 year old boy. He and his 3 children live with me and my children and he treats me like a ...

19, dating a 25 year old. Will it work? What will my parents say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - hi iam 19 and going on a date with a woman who i think is gorgeous but she got 4 kids different ages young; oldest is 7 and she's 25 do u think it might work out and also i am worried what my folks might say aswell. just want to know what ur ...

How do I tell my parents he's 20 years older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my partner for about eight months. We are so in love and I really cannot picture life without him. He is 20 years older than me (I am 21 and he is 41) and he is separated with five children. This however, is not the problem. ...

What do you think about age gaps in general?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - how do u feel about age gaps in general? personally i dont think they matter but i know my family does as am 16 and going seein a 21 year old, what do u think?...

I don't know how to tell my parents of this age difference... how much longer should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i posted a question before asking for advice on how to tell my mum about my older bf(am 16 and he 21). that i went out with him and we get on really well and i really like him that i told her and she doesnt like the age difference at all between us ...

Made out with an underaged girl (15)... Could I get into trouble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Hi. I went out last night with a few friends. During the course of the evening, I ran into a girl from Germany. She hung around with us for a while, came to a club with us ect, I bought her a drink and we sat together and had a conversation. My...

My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no help! stuck in the middle ...

I am obsessed with an older divorced man...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hello..I am young..a 17 year old girll.I fell for this one man between the age of 40-50 years old in 2005.He is the best guy I have ever seen in my life and I love him to death. Actually, I am overly obsessed with him.I used to go to his church he ...

I love sex with him but I'm tired of his lifestyle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I've met this man 18 years my senior right after my divorce. I am 45. It was lust at first sight. He makes me feel loved and wanted and I love being round him. I've been with him a year now and start to feel tired of his life style. When we are ...

What do I do about her wanting an older, married man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6113 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - So I have this girl who is my best friend by any means. We have always been on and off again. Well she has seen this physical therapist since she was 14. Now she is 18. He is 34. So She has a huge crush on him and recently asked him if she should ...

Wondering if it was my young age that made him distant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Went on a date with a really fantastic guy - we hit it off loads, laughed constantly and I really felt we were getting somewhere. Then my age came up in conversation and I mentioned to him I was 18, though am just about to turn 19 in about a months ...

I lied to him about my age and I'm scared to tell him now in case he dumps me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, we are deeply in love, but there's a problem, I'm starting to feel guilty as I've been lying to him this whole time. Basicly he thinks I'm older than what I am, I'm starting to feel guilty for lying as I lov...

Found love then lost it? I'm trying to get back into the dating game and met this girl...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - I'm a recently divorced man of 42 and I'm trying to get back in the dating game. I'm not a pervert, sick, pedophile, etc. I have no problem meeting eligible and non-eligble women my age. I met this one particular girl in a store near my house. I w...

I get on great with this guy at school but mum says I've to back off because he is older. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - i really like this older guy, he's four years older than me, and he likes me back. we talk every day on msn and sometimes hang out at school. he's super smart and i trust him with everything. we're both into the same things and when we're talking ...

The age difference bothers him and now he doesn't want us to be together, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are 8 years apart and things have never been easy. The age thing doesn't bother me one bit, however it bothers him big time. He says he wouldn't care if all my friends and everyone didn't know who he was (He was the construction ...

After 21 years my husband says I am too old for him and that he doesn't love me anymore! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - After 21 years of marriage my husband woke up one morning and told me that I was too old for him ( I am 12 years older than him) and that he didnt love me anymore. He says I have not done anything wrong its him, he hasnt had an affair so he says. ...

I'm 17 and she's 44, but I've fancied her for over two years now, and I think she likes me too..any tips on how to progress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (M) - Hi i am 17 and i have noticed that i dont fancy girls my own age. However I have found that I fancy older women is this normal and ok? I know this lady and I fancy her she is 44 and single. I have fancyed her for 2 years now and think she likes me ...

Do you think he's gross to like me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl, well I'm almost 14. Recently since I've been on msn, someone added me on their list. I accepted them because I might know the person. I asked them who they were. He said his name and that he was 26. I told him I was 13. Don't ...

Can't leave him but he's horrible to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm feeling low. I feel my boyfriend is mistreating me. He is 28 I'm 43, he's turkish. I know it's a big age gap, but I don't look 43 and he looks older. The problem is we have been together for 18 months and things are starting to go ...

I feel like I give him sex to swap help from him... please advise.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I've just divorced my husband of 20 years and met this Englishman 18 years my senior and Im not from England. Im 45. He is trying to help to get my life on track. He has sex with me whenever he sees me. I never say no because I would be totally ...

He wants a 1 month break and said he'd stay in touch but hasn't in 2 weeks... what's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of ten months recently told me he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship. He has a health condition that seriously impacts his life and will always. he is 10 years older than I am and also says he has baggage from past ...

Did I scare him off....was he really interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - So...I recently have become single. I have a much younger male as a friend (he's 22, I'm 42). We have known each other for a very long time. Since he has gained knowledge that I am "free" he's been acting a bit different. Very protective, flirty at ...

Older guys messages freaked me out,why did I feel a little thrill too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Okay, I kinda have no clue what to do right now. I'm 17 and have a myspace profile and just recently a guy I added to my friends has contacted me and said he wanted to add me to messenger or get my number. But he's 26 and I got freaked out by other ...

Is it time for me to lay my cards on the table and tell him to contribute??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a younger man now for three years and I am beginning to feel that I am being taken for granted but as it has gone on for so long dont know how to deal with the matter. We get on very well together and the age gap ...

Is it right for my friend to date this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

22 March 2008 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is it wrong for a person to date a girl that is 2 years younger? because my friend want to go out with a girl in year 10 and he is in college. Does this make him a pedo? Also i would like to know why does the...

He's 18 years older than me, does he want a wife or a nurse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - I've met this man 18 years my senior while I was divorcing my husband of 22 years. He is supportive and attentive. He makes me feel loved and wanted. I was a bit worry about the age gap. He said it would be nice I could look after him when he ...

My husband says I should control my sex drive 20 years after our marriage, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - I've married to my husband for 20 years. I've always love sex and have high sex drive. Into my late forty now my sex drive has gone down a bit but I still like to have sex though I dont have an orgasm every time we make love. My husband said I am ...

How do I keep my man interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - Hello everyone Im wondering how to keep my man interested in me Im 31 and he is 23 Im afriad that he will soon lose interest and leave as Im 8 years older than him what can I do to help him stay interested ?? the sex is great (every night)an...

How can I keep him interested and is the age difference too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - hey! Just need a little advice, it's not too serious though =]. I have just starting seeing this guy who is 8 years older than me, do you think this is too much? I am 18 nearly 19 and he has just turned 26. I have asked him and he said "this...

I've changed my pubic/private area for my husband, what do you think? Advice anyone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - My husband and I have had a lot of trouble with our marriage recently (he had an affair which dear cupid has helped me with and thanks again for that.) It has been hell but I still haven't come to a final decision because it's only 3 and a half ...

My teacher likes me, kissed me and is scaring me! I'm feeling awful but no one will believe me if I tell them.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - Hi, i have this really bad problem it's about a teacher and it's nothing to do with me liking him its the other way round. We have just broke up from school for the easter holidays. The whole story started when i was walking down the corridor goi...

Should I being going out with him, and if so, what should I get him for his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - i need help because i am seeing this sixteen yr old and he is 3 yrs older than me but i loove him and he loves me he is rele sweet and i am being asked out by him on mi birthday (how romantic or wat )lol but it was his birthday and i am seeing him ...

I'm about to break off my engagement to be with another guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - i really need help ! The other day i pretty much lost my mind, im not all innocent and everything but iam engaged but ive been seeing this other guy sort of as a friend but it turned into way much more. when he told me he was in love with me...

I'm obsessed with my teacher and feel I am in love with her!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - Well, I know this is a very redundant topic on here, and I've read a bunch of questions and answers. But the thing is that most that I would like to reply to have been closed. So I finally decided to post my own, as no one question/story is quite ...

I'm 17 and he's 35. Is a 18 year old difference too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - I am a 17 year old senior in high school. I have met a 35 year old man whom i am falling for. We have alot of things in common, and i fell really comfortable around him, but my question is...is this 18 year difference a problem..will people accept ...

I don't want to leave him because I cant bear for him to be happy with another girl but he is getting me so depressed. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

20 March 2008 (F) - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 31. I don't love him but i don't want to leave him as i cant see him happy with another girl. How sad does that sound? He treats me so bad and puts me down all the time. We have a 2year old together and i don't think i ...

Sometimes I feel like I am making love with my dad, as he's 18 years older than me. Am I abnormal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I've just divorced my husband of 20 years. He is selfish and unkind. Then Im lucky to meet this man 18 years older than me. He helps me to get my life on track. He makes me feel loved and wanted which I've never felt before. However I feel sick ...

My partner who is 10 years older treats me like a child! It ruins my day!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have lived together for a year. Everything is usually fine because my bf is very caring and we love each other. But, one thing really bothers me and it often makes me upset. He is 10 years older than me and it is true that he is ...

Is it wrong for a 19 year old boy to like a 15 year old girl?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

18 March 2008 (M) - hey am a 19 year old boy and a really like a 15 year old girl, but me friends and stuff say its wrong. what should I do?...

Is he with me only for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

17 March 2008 (F) - is he just with me for sex? i've been seeing this guy for about 5 months(im 21 hes 26), we went on a few dates then i started sleeping with him (after about 3 weeks), since then i mostly go round to his, and we always have some form of sex (eve...

When is the right time to tell her my proper age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

17 March 2008 (M) - I have recently met a very attractive lady that I really like (and from the look of things, she is very much into me as well). The only problem is that she is 5 years older than me. I don't have a problem with the age difference because i have dated ...

How bad of an age gap is this? We met on Hot or Not.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 March 2008 (F) - Hi, Not too long ago i met a guy on 'hotornot' he was gorgeous so left a message telling him so. i was quite shocked to find out he was living in england, and this is a world wide website. Even more scarier was that he lived in the same county....

He created a profile on a dating site, and when I asked him about us he kept shouting he does not love me, why am I still with him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

16 March 2008 (F) - Hi there, i am 27 my partner 43 and we have been together for last 6 years. I love him dearly even we have a few problems - personal and financial... Last year i caught him up to sending emails to girl in Ukrain and even paying her for translat...

Sexual relationship announcing to become serious - but is the age gap an issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

16 March 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy who is in his early 30's for the past month now. Mainly just been messing around but things are starting to get a bit more heated lately and he's been telling me he's starting to fall for me. I'm about to turn 19 and I was ...

Soon after his fourth AWOL, we broke up once again. I want to forget it all, but I think I love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6124 days ago

16 March 2008 (F) - last year, i got to know this guy. he's my first ever boyfriend. although i just knew him for a day, i've started to develop feelings for him. my girlfriends did remind me not to fall in love too fast for someone i didnt really know. but i didnt ...

Is it possible he doesn't masturbate to the porn on his computer??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

15 March 2008 (F) - I recently found some porn pictures of nude female models in pictures by themselves and a couple of videos of girls undressing on my boyfriend's computer. We have been dating almost 2 years, and from the time I met him he has always told me that ...

I think my love for a teacher has gotten me into a depression or mental instability, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

15 March 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and in love with my teacher (and NO it is not a crush or infatuation) and have been for almost a year, and even though i've been very unhappy since i realised how i felt for him, recently it seems to have gotten a lot worse - whenever i'm ...

He says he loves me but would never marry me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, we have 4 kids together and he has been married before and engaged before. The other day I was talking to him and he said that he would never marry me. So I got very angry I am not talking to him ...