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writes:i posted a question before asking for advice on how to tell my mum about my older bf(am 16 and he 21). that i went out with him and we get on really well and i really like him that i told her and she doesnt like the age difference at all between us and was totally against it because of how bad i got hurt before from my last ex who was same age and also because she was gettin the blame off of everyone about last time and i really dont want that to happenin again but for now we talked and we came to an agreement of me seein him once a week and that i've to focus on my exams and that no-one else in my family is to know about us until i turn 17 in august and that we've to take things slow. I've agreed to them and going to stick to them and he has agreed to as well.the only thing am worried about now is that she keeps askin when his bday is and i said i dont know but he turns 22 less than a month before me that i dont know when the best time is to tell her, to i do it now or wait till we've been out a few times more? she doesnt want to meet him but i would rather she would, sooner rather than later because i know she would like him if she got to know him and would rather she could see that she coudl trust himi really dont want to screw things up again and i think she realises is as i've not tried to fight against her and am gonna do my best to make this work for us i just need some advice on how best to do this and if anyone has been in something like this before please tell me what u did
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reader, lil-angel182 +, writes (31 March 2008):
lil-angel182 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for ur advice and think thats what am going to do. i'll follow their rules as long as i get to see him
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