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writes:Okay, I kinda have no clue what to do right now. I'm 17 and have a myspace profile and just recently a guy I added to my friends has contacted me and said he wanted to add me to messenger or get my number. But he's 26 and I got freaked out by other things he mentioned in the message (that I won't say, for they're far too embarassing), but weirdly enough I got kinda excited from what he said, even though it sorta scared me. I don't know if I should let him contact me or not, what do you think? Am I weird because I got a thrill from being scared of this guy? I seriously don't know what to think or do, please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Being older means he was born a few years earlier than you. And he's been walking around this earth for a few years longer. That's all.
It doesn't automatically make him more mature, or smarter, or wiser, or richer, or anything else good. It just makes him older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Use your head.
They guy weirded you right the heck out.
Ignore him.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 Was it a rollercoaster like thrill? Scream at the top of your head in sheer terror in the safest form of transport in the world?
He is dangerous but harmless as long as it is just the internet.
He is a window into the adult world, more mature and more knowledable, perhaps even more daring then guys your own age. That makes him seem all the more alluring.
Although you are sensible enough to realize that he is a risk.
I would recommend watching "to catch a predator". Flirt all you want with this guy but ON the net. Not in real life and certainly do not give him any personal details or send images/movies.
Your not weird but keep listening to that part of you that tells you to be scared of that guy. That part knows best.
It is one thing to flirt with death, another to invite it into your living room.
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (24 March 2008):
The illicit is exciting.... many people get kicks from things not because they are actually exciting but because they shouldnt be exciting. Being naughty can be fun. It can also be unpleasant and not as much fun in reality as it is in your head/ on the internet.On a selfish note, whilst things are internet only and they have no way of finding you in reality you can do what ever you want. On a sensible note, you shouldnt lead someone on if you dont intend to deliver and so should decide if you actually do want to do what has been suggested or if it is only the idea that is exciting rather than the reality.
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