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Archived questions from: March, 2022 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My partner left me for a man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

31 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in bits after my partner announced he developed feelings for men but kept them bottled up for years. He feels better for telling me and insists he still loves me — but has met someone else recently who he loves as well. I am 48 and my partner is 52. We have been toge... (556 words)

My husband left me for my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

30 March 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband left me for one of my close friends. Not my best friend, but someone I've known since I was 18. He admitted he's been dating her since February, not even that long for it to be an affair! He's known her since he was 26 and I introduced him at a Christmas party ... (402 words)

My fiancé wants us to move to New York

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

29 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've been with my fiance for 4 years, but only engaged since February. Last night he told me he had made a decision which would change our life massively; he said he wanted to move to New York City and get a job in Broadway. On-stage, behind the scenes, d... (963 words)

We're thinking of retiring in London

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

29 March 2022 (F)

age - Hello there. Me and my husband have been discussing retirement plans, as he's retiring in July. Looking forward to that. What he wants to do is retire to London, and spend time enjoying the city; he also wants to spend time with American expats there too. He said his l... (595 words)

What's the deal with my husband and his sexual preferences?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 989 days ago

28 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 40, married for 7 years, one child who's 5 years old. I have a wonderful relationship with my husband; we're very happy with our daughter and our life. We have a good sex life. My husband in his day-to-day life is the very serious professor types. No nonsense, very m... (196 words)

How can I handle this so that she learns what she needs to learn without making it too awful for both of us

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

27 March 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I found my girlfriend of 6 months has been cheating on me for the last month. So i'm going to break up with her, I just don't know what is the best way to do it. I'm a bit older (29), than her (22), so her being a bit immature and naive has been something i'v... (409 words)

My boyfriend never wants to spend time with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

27 March 2022 (F)

age 16-17 - I don't really know how to start this off so here I go, me and my boyfriend live about 23 minutes away from each other, I'm 15 he's 16. lately I've been feeling like he doesn't want to hang out with me and when we text he's super dry, ill send paragraphs to him and he will just ... (127 words)

How can I negotiate us back to friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 997 days ago

27 March 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I really wasn't sure how I was going to write this but I know this was a mistake that I wish I thought more about. I met a man from the Philippines online through a game we played together, we chatted on and off throughout the game and we became closer to the point we had fee... (765 words)

Both of us are unhappily married but he won’t leave her as I would leave my husband for him. How do I get over this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

27 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve know this guy for 11 years now. He’s my father’s childhood friend’s son. My father and his mother were very keen on getting us married but I hadn’t even met him as we lived in different states altogether. So without meeting him I denied their marriage proposal. A few ... (524 words)

I want my boyfriend to mature

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 998 days ago

26 March 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - I could really do with some help about my relationship. I have a boyfriend who I often see as this incredible and wonderful person, we share so many traits and we really get along so much of the time. The issue is, over time I've become increasingly concerned about the long t... (429 words)

My boyfriend told me he tried swinging two years into our relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

26 March 2022 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him. I thought I knew all there was to know about his history when he revealed to me he had taken part in a swinger's party when he was younger. Whoa, hold on a minute Fred!!! I was tongue tied and shocked to say the least. I... (282 words)

My brother has become obsessed with money

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 997 days ago

26 March 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm concerned about my brother, who's 16, as for the past month or so, he's become obsessed with money, and really wants to marry a millionaire, wants me to help him find someone rich to date. Really rich. He said it's not about dating them for the money, it's just who he's att... (486 words)

My husband is pro lockdown and its causing marital issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 997 days ago

26 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there. Over the past few weeks me and my husband have been arguing over... lockdowns. He really, REALLY wants a fourth national lockdown, been writing to our MP about it. He's nostalgic over the first lockdown and things like Tiger King, Zoom quizzes, baking etc. ... (628 words)

My boyfriend says he’s not bothered that I cheated, is he just playing mind games?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1000 days ago

25 March 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I told my boyfriend last week that I cheated on him and he didn’t get upset or angry, or even seem the slightest bit bothered at all. Ever since he’s just carried on as normal and says we should just forget about it and move on. Now I can’t tell if he genuinely doesn’t care or ... (367 words)

Oral sex and the boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 999 days ago

25 March 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is about blow jobs with my boyfriend. A while ago he told me he thought they were overrated and he's never been interested in receiving them from anybody he's been with. I didn't think it was because I did them badly because I've been told in past relationships th... (153 words)

My girlfriend's 'your friends or me' ultimatum

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1000 days ago

24 March 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - looking for some advice on a particularly toxic situation in my relationship I have been with my partner for just shy of 2 years. a few months ago she found some screenshots of a conversation I had had with a female friend of mine which crossed the boundaries of what is consi... (377 words)

My mother lacks empathy for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 999 days ago

24 March 2022 (F) age 36-40 - I am sorry for this long message but I am hurting. I have reached a point in my life where my I am very much disgusted with my mother's mentality. More and more I see a toxic woman who never see her toxic ways. I was reflecting on my life, and looking at my relationship with my ... (493 words)

I found emails between my boyfriend and his ex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1001 days ago

23 March 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I have a question. I am not sure if it's something I should be worried about. My boyfriend moved to my area a month ago and we have been exclusively dating. We enjoy each other's company and get on well. When we have sex, he doesn't really kiss me or cuddle too much ... (248 words)

My friend hasn't spoken to us since we bought a bigger house

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1003 days ago

23 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year me and my husband (child free by choice ) sold our property for a bigger house. We wanted more space and we’re very lucky that our house sold quickly and we were able to find a house we liked. Our friends around the same time were also trying to sell thei... (601 words)

My husband's former mistress now lives across the street

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1000 days ago

23 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancé and I have been together for almost 5 years. 2 years ago we bought our first house together. Now, 4 years before we met he was married and cheated on his wife. He never kept this from me and was always honest about it. He was unhappy in his marriage as they ... (446 words)

My husband's porn addiction is causing him trouble at work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1002 days ago

22 March 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have an 8-year-old daughter, we've been together for 12 years. However, over the last three weeks we've had significant arguments. They're over serious things. Not things like bills, finances, money woes or even division of household chores. Porn, ye... (566 words)

Questions about dating in the gay community

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1003 days ago

22 March 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys. I've been back in work for eight weeks now, but for the past six weeks I've had a problem. During the pandemic we had to shut down and couldn't work remotely, it was a long long holiday that wasn't fun at times. I met this great guy, and he doesn't work at m... (641 words)

I have a crush on my friend's older brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1002 days ago

22 March 2022 (F) age 18-21 - Hi so I have a best friend and I absolutely love her brother but he a. Has never acknowledged me once and b. Is like 4 years older c. He might by dating someone but I don’t know. What should I do should I try to get closer to him or should I just move on and give up... (60 words)

Learning to communicate my boundaries

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1000 days ago

22 March 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony aunts and uncles, Firstly thanks for all your hard work. I learn so much from all your responses and the time/energy you take to help people. Mine is a simple question, after years of therapy, I'm plenty aware of the benefits of boundaries. But as I go through lif... (328 words)

What is going on in Poul's head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1000 days ago

21 March 2022 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey Agony aunts! :) Let’s put some code names for the people in my story: My crush= Poul, My friend= Jenna and her twin brother= Justin. A friend= Sreya, A Frined= Ennie. My bff=Nate, friend= Sunny. I met poul on a summer program 8 months ago. I was new and didn’t have that... (1135 words)

My fiancé wants to help others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1004 days ago

21 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance told me yesterday he wants to carry on the magic of Christmas year-round to deserving people. But here's the catch; we're not mega-rich. Not poor, but middle-class. He says apart from the presents (who doesn't like presents at Christmas unless they're Scrooge... (351 words)

My long term boyfriend doesn't want anything serious

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1004 days ago

21 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, aunts! So, my boyfriend of five years has been playing hot and cold with me for a while now. At first he was pretty interested but never showed any interest in getting married. He never talks unless I am the one calling or texting him and always says that he is busy and c... (242 words)

I am worried about husbands interest in finding an old friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1001 days ago

20 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, so not sure how to deal with this one. Been married 8 years, but together for 19 years in total, met in August 2003. Over the past few weeks, my husband's become interested in 2013. But it's not an obsession with 2013 as a whole; one particular thing about the year. We... (598 words)

Am I overthinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 999 days ago

20 March 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing a guy for about two months. We only see each other at a weekend if I’m not working or one night through the week. My job is travelling away so we have to juggle things around that too. We get on really well when we are together. He usually stays over at ... (137 words)

Teenaged Son got his girlfriend pregnant and its amess

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1002 days ago

20 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My son is 17 and got his girlfriend, who's 16, pregnant. They'd been dating for 2 months, since restrictions on COVID were partially lifted in our state. Well, I say girlfriend, but my son's heartbroken after his girlfriend told him she was a trans man and a feminine gay m... (659 words)

My husband has become overly fearful of Covid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1007 days ago

18 March 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner has become more fearful of COVID now than during the lockdowns; we had three here in England, a fourth one didn't happen. He keeps getting agitated about even having to go out, doesn't want to go to a meal we'd been invited to, fearing people won't be socially dist... (840 words)

I'm pressured by colleagues for wearing a Covid mask

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1007 days ago

18 March 2022 (M) age 41-50 - I live in a country that is still very much affected by the covid. Our government has decided for POLITICAL reasons to remove all measures (the elections are around the corner), including wearing masks when inside at work. Nothing has changed, we still have 300 000 new cases ... (308 words)

My mother is pushing religious education on my baby

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1006 days ago

18 March 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m a new mom, just had a baby three months ago. My parents are evangelical Christians, and I was raised in church (speaking in tongues at age 8, that was me)! But I grew up to be agnostic and I want to raise my daughter to be a critical thinker with healthy skepticism. My mom... (434 words)

Minor celebrity's effect on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1006 days ago

18 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I am genuinely really struggling so please only supportive answers. Bit of background. So there is a public figure, kind of celebrity – small celebrity, up and coming type – that I admire. (They will be left unnamed, I will just call them M) This started as a normal celebrity... (843 words)

Anxiety from someone else's energy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1007 days ago

17 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I am genuinely really struggling so please only supportive answers. Bit of background. So there is a public figure, kind of celebrity – small celebrity, up and coming type – that I admire. (They will be left unnamed, I will just Callthem D) This started as a normal celebrit... (800 words)

My girlfriend's family are furious with us for having sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 992 days ago

17 March 2022 (M)

age 16-17 - Okay, so l am a black male who lives in Windsor Ontario, Canada. l have been with my girlfriend (who is white) for quite a while now and we decided to take our relationship to the next step, we got intimate when l came over to her house. It all happened when we were watching... (239 words)

My friend always seems to land on her feet

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1006 days ago

17 March 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so I expect there will be judgement my way on this but the subject I'm writing in about it really bothering me. I know a woman for over thirty years since we was seventeen years old, I guess in those years I would say a friend. I'm not going to completely slate... (417 words)

Is my straight friend flirting with me or is she just joking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

16 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Curious for some opinions here. I'm an out gay female. A new girl started working at my job recently. She's roughly my age and straight. Seemingly the boy-crazy type of straight. Never been with a woman before. Which is what is so confusing to me about this. Right off the ... (409 words)

My ex is sending me mixed messages

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1004 days ago

16 March 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - I come out of 4 year relationship. It’s been a few months break in meeting although we spoken daily by phone. Recently she made contact, and we have been speaking about our issues after things have calmed down. However I feel she does not give me time of day but tells me... (206 words)

Why is the instructor acting weird now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1003 days ago

16 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I have a strange problem which is not exactly something to do with love... I've been going to this Zumba class for a few months now and the instructor is a nice young guy who everyone is crazy for. I have to admit, I even had a crush on him for a little while. He w... (306 words)

Is this a normal relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

15 March 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - We have great chemistry and have a really good vibe but sometimes things are just weird with us. Like today we had what felt like an argument about something that happen a while along. The thing is he literally wasn't going to say anything about it and just keep it inside. When ... (144 words)

Dating for six weeks, and now he thinks he was too eager

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

14 March 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been dating a guy for about 6 weeks. We’ve had some good dates and get on really well. On our last date he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend and make it official. I said yes but I wasn’t 100% sure in my head. I stayed over at his home and when I left he told me he ... (213 words)

Best friend cheating with new boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

14 March 2022 (?) age 18-21 - It not my question i was asked to post the question. a lady met a guy online after accepting the bet of her bestfriend telling her she doesn't have online friends. She dated the guy for two years before a particular day he said he want to see her and take her on a date she was ... (120 words)

How do I act in front of my crush?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 990 days ago

13 March 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay so I have a crush on this boy. He is very extremely cute and I can't stop thinking about him!!! And it's like love at first sight!!! I think having a boyfriend or a relationship at age 10-11 is not the right age (it might be). But he has a girlfriend already... In my ... (128 words)

I am concerned about the big move to Chicago my husband wants to make

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

13 March 2022 (F)

age - Me and my husband are retired, my husband retired in January 2020, pre-COVID, and I retired in February 2020. I'm 61 and he's 63. We have twin daughters who are 34. We live in Texas, one of the big cities there. He was a businessman who ran his own business since he was in ... (955 words)

He touches me, but does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1010 days ago

12 March 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a best friend who is a guy. We were together for a long time since the time we met. Since sometime we were sitting together for classes and when he or i feel asleep we stroke each other with our hands. just rubbing the hands together was enough. We were holding hand of ... (513 words)

I don't know what love is

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

12 March 2022 (?) age 18-21 - I had a relationship with my ex for nine months and i cringe whenever he says he love me and ask me did i love him. i feel wierd with kissing him since i was sexually assaulted when i was younger so i feel disgusted with the fact of kissing especially because of the saliva. ... (99 words)

Where are all the good attractive seniors these days?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

11 March 2022 (M)

age - Hi. Just read the post with the 64 yr old lady asking if it was normal to be interested in sex with her younger 48 yr old jerk man and what he said. Now here is my question you might want to post out there with a little back ground on who I am . First off , I’m a retired 75 y... (521 words)

Does anybody know where I am going wrong weight-wise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

11 March 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - I am unsure why I am continuing to gain weight and hoping somebody can maybe tell me something obvious that I am missing. 3 years ago I lost 3 stone over the space of 12 months through calorie counting and the occasional exercise. I managed to key it off until stupidly 6... (274 words)

My dad is no longer attracted to my mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

11 March 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - No easy way to discuss this, no other outlets. I'm 16, and about three weeks ago, my dad had told me he's no longer attracted to Mom and that as time went on it felt more like he was a roomie with her than a husband, and is moving his lover in, who's a 31-year-old man ... (883 words)