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writes:I have a best friend who is a guy. We were together for a long time since the time we met. Since sometime we were sitting together for classes and when he or i feel asleep we stroke each other with our hands. just rubbing the hands together was enough. We were holding hand of each other to keep us awake for the lectures and it was going all well. He had a girlfriend he was a friend of mine. but after 3 months of getting to know me he had to break up with his girlfriend because of his family disapproved of her. when we stand next to each other we are touching each other like what we do with best friends. after some time he started rubbing my knees or calves to wake me up during lectures. im a heavy sleeper when it comes to lectures and because of him i was awake. i didn't found that weird as well. i kind of have a crush on him though i'm not sure whether he's the same too. but some of his actions and his concern towards me keeps telling me that he have a thing or two for me. i am not sure about that though.after his breakup with his ex he was more active in touch me like stroking my thighs and we had to be apart for some time for quarantine and after quarantine i found that he was teased for being with me all the time and he was distancing himself from me to stop the rumours about me because he was afraid that it will affect me. one day when we were solving the cold war between us because of that, he said that he is losing his control when it comes to me and he asked whether he have permission to go on more. i couldn't get the fact and told yes and now he is trying to finger me(not exactly) or touch me every moment he gets a chance. every time he feels that i'm near him he kind of want s to touch me like i'm the charger of him. he just strokes my thighs and calves but at sometimes he seriously lose control and wanted to finger me though i rejected him on that. but he immediately said sorry to me saying sorry for losing control. currently we are both in a enclosed place where no outsiders can come or go other than our colleagues are there. sometimess he touches my bum and send a sexy eye wink as well. does he like me?he kinds of keep a secret about being like this from his friends but keeps telling them that he likes some other girl after the rumours about us happened. what is happening? does he seriously like me or he's just playing along with me? but he 's there every time i'm facing a problem. i kind of have feelings for him like his tough too
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2022): OMG! Is he really a friend!?!? No way on earth I am believing it! (he is a creep!)Now there is only two reasons for him to do this like-1. He is a perv and he just wants to keep doing this with you and later blame you for your permission for him to touch you. And he indeed like someone else or idk he is just a bad guy!2. He just really likes you and is afraid that his parents will not approve of you like they didn't approve his ex.For the first reason the only thing he wants is to touch you. Did he ever tell you if he likes you? Just ask him! I am pretty sure he will say yes just because he wants to feel you up! But that is not the point! The point is he is asking you if he can touch you and trying to go out of his way and there he is going around telling people he likes someone else just to keep it secret? A real man will never keep his love a secret. What are you a box of shame for him? The answer is NO! You are not and you should avoid him from now on! Tell your parents shortly after you ask him why is he doing all this and why he is hiding it! But if it is the second reason why he is doing this he should still stop because it is wrong! And you should still ask your parents about their consent on your relationship
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 March 2022):
 He sounds like a total creep!
Feeling you up when you sleep? Ewwww
He isn't a friend, he is gross.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2022): Seriously?!! What does it take to creep you out?!!
He's groping you, and he doesn't necessarily want you for his girlfriend. He just wants to touch you in inappropriate places...with your permission!!!
I guess young-ladies don't get much home-schooling about boys from their moms and dads anymore; or maybe it's just that they choose not to listen to them, and would rather ask total strangers on the internet.
The boy is being a total creep-o, and a perv; and he just wants to getaway with feeling you up. Taking advantage of the whole situation.
Just giving boys permission to do as they please doesn't make them fall in-love with you, sweetheart. He knows already that it is YOU who likes HIM; so he's testing you to see how naive (or dumb) you're willing to play just to get him to like you. I guess sex is next.
Go ask your dad what he thinks?
All he sees right now is a golden-opportunity to get into your panties. Once that happens, you'll be back here asking the same question.
I know one thing for sure. If you keep letting him have his way without telling you himself if he likes you; he'll lose respect for you.
Now that he knows he can feel you up, if you asked him if he likes you; he'll tell you whatever you want to hear. He'll even lie just to get sex.
If you can't tell if he likes you, more than likely it's not the way you want him to like you.
For now, he likes you from the neck down; or wherever you let him touch you. He'd like that with any girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2022): He just wants to use you for sex. He does not like you or want to be friends, just your body. Wake up.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (13 March 2022):
 Personally this is a very weird and creep way of letting someone know you like them, but that in my opinion is exactly what he is, weird and creepy.
If you if you really like someone a respectable person will date for a while and wait to do all that stuff at a more appropriate time.
You ask does he like you?.Well he likes touching you in class, and likes it even more when you give him the green light to go further, but i feel this is all he likes you for. If if was you i would change the green light to red, he is perving on you and this is all he wants.
Stop him now, put an end to this, Like anonymous123 says, he is not a friend he is a predator.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (13 March 2022):
 I somehow find this inappropriate and creepy. Touching someone without their consent is wrong. Full stop. Please put an end to this immediately. This guy isn't a friend, he's a predator.
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