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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did my boyfriend lie to me about spending time with his son? What's going on here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

31 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's son is over on a visit. He has been here for a week. He lives in the Florida and we are in Canada. Now, I am having some trouble figuring something out. Can everyone help me? Before I go insane? My boyfriend was supposed to spend the day with me ... (349 words)

My boyfriend cheated and I have all the proof but he keeps denying it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

31 May 2016 (F)

age - This is probably a no brainer but I'm asking anyway, found out my boyfriend has been texting and chatting with his ex, I confronted him and he promised to stop because he didn't want to lose me the problem is he hasn't I checked his phone and have the texts, I left him and he ... (91 words)

I'm turned on by a fantasy I'm sure my wife's interest in would be zero!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

31 May 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All. I am a very happily married man and my sex life with my wife is fantastic. However, I am hugely turned on by the thought of a threesome between my wife and a shemale. I am almost certain that my wife's interest in this is pretty much zero. What should I do? Thanks!... (55 words)

I (F) upset my boyfriend and he's now being so cold with me. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

31 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on what to do about my boyfriend. Whenever we have an argument and I am slightly to blame, he gives me the silent treatment the next day and sometimes for a few days. He has mental health problems and I will admit that he is very self absorbed, he hardly has co... (293 words)

Third option. Should I wait for more clear signs before reaching a decision on what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

31 May 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I have fallen for a best friend of mine. I don’t know if his feelings are reciprocated, what I do know is that I am walking between the borderline of acting on my feelings and pursuing him as more than a friend or restraining myself altogether and avoiding causing awkwardness ... (532 words)

I think I'm starting to hate my best friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

31 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need some advice with a certain situation that my friend (we'll call her molly) got herself in to. We've been friends for about 5 years and we used to relate to each other so well. We were so close until about 4 months ago. That's when she met a guy (we'll call Garry). ... (774 words)

Should I tell how I feel, even though she is not gay and has a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

31 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've really liked this girl for four years from college. I am certain she did had some feelings for me. However, She has a boyfriend, and ive just left college and dont think i will ever see her or speak to her again. I am not looking for relationship or anything like that. ... (101 words)

What can I do? My ex ghosted me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend whom I've been sleeping with, ghosted me for someone else a month ago. I found this out from mutual friends. I feel absolutely horrible. I feel strung along, used, worthless, hopeless, "not good enough".. Its pretty pathetic. why not tell me the truth? why her ... (56 words)

Seeking your opinions, please! Is he covering up dating another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this man for quite awhile now. Recently there were some pics of him on Instagram with another girl. I questioned him about if he was seeing anyone and his reply was no. I then sent the pic to him and he still says this is not his girl. He also removed ... (165 words)

I like this guy at work. But he is dating someone else at work. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I like somebody at work, however it is a bit complicated as he is seeing someone else at work. A few months ago they had broken up (although I didn't know at the time) and at the pub he and I were getting on really well, enough for some of my work friends to comment on it in a ... (311 words)

He still lives with his ex. What can I do. ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys thanks for reading, I am open to all the advise you can give me. I have been dating this guy for a few weeks, but I barely get to spend time with him because he has a son. I haven't met his son yet I would like to but not till we are in a full relationship sometime... (167 words)

Are my strategies taking me in the right direction? Should I 'live' a little after the divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) age 41-50 - My husband and I are amicably divorcing after 10 years of being together. There's no drama, we've been dead as a couple for years, we just didn't fight in public or complained to friends and family. So people close to us are in shock, as they thought we were "solid a s a rock". ... (516 words)

My Bf ignores me and neglects me. Is it time to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - If my boyfriend has neglected me for over 3 months and counting, should I break up with him? He might be working on something, or studying for finals, but that might not be it. I have also found another man but I haven't met him in real life, and I haven't confirmed his ... (133 words)

How can we come to some agreement? We have different views about my past sexual history.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm hoping you can help! I'm in a relationship with this new lovely guy, but there is one main problem; we have very different ideas about sex and relationships etc. Basically he's very traditional and believes that sex is only when you love someone and/o... (228 words)

Need advice on how to handle child support after it "ends".

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

30 May 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a question regarding child support for my son, who is 18 and graduates HS next month (June). In my state, child support terminates upon graduation of HS at age 18. My ex-wife is the custodial parent, and I have paid child support religiously since we divorced in 2011. ... (692 words)

I feel uncomfortable with my brothers wife attracted to my husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1933 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My SIL is a attention seeker she always acts different around my past bfs and now especially towards my husband I can feel she's always trying to get his attention, get close to him and whatever my husband says she supports it or makes comments on how understanding she is ... (274 words)

My words initiated the break-up. But he broke up as if I never meant anything to him. How can I get over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am very unhappy i need advice I have been dating this man for ten months now and he has a habit of ignoring my calls and texts even for days so we have been urguing about it he says he is busy but he will go even for a week unless i contact him I have tried to love hi... (161 words)

My boyfriend's behaviour has left me feeling confused. How do I make sense of this? Help !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused about my boyfriend's behaviour lately. We've been together for nearly six months and everything has been great. He's really sweet and loving. He always makes an effort and plans dates. He's a proper gentleman, always pays. For Valentine's he went all out and... (1040 words)

What can I do? My Bf has now become just taciturn and grumpy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - When we first met my boyfriend loved talking with me but now he is just taciturn and grumpy.He bites back every conversation i start and complains about everything connected to me. It's driving me crazy and i cant see why he could imagine i want a man who talks to me as if i am... (59 words)

I feel crushed. How can a man turn nasty so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex of 42 recently ended things twice with me and I have lost all trust in him now. He wanted to see me yesterday. I still love him but declined as Im healing and feel it was not a healthy relationship anyway. He had mood swings and was not over his longterm ex when... (210 words)

He is not the ideal choice, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts! I broke up with my bf a year ago. People who love me dont like him anymore because he could have cheated on me (not sure, however proofs led to break up). Though we broke up for the public, we have been meeting and talking. The relationship is not as solid and cert... (600 words)

We had our problems. Now its much later and I've moved on. Should I unblock him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

30 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm new to this website so sorry if i make any mistakes. There is this guy I know that is the most confusing... one day my friends and i were playing a game where we had to tell everyone who we liked (on facebook messenger). i liked him but i didn't know if he liked me. ... (298 words)

How can I get my man to kiss and cuddle me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend/partner dislikes kissing and cuddling me.He has had a troubled past; We have sex most days,which we both love,but no kissing and not close to my body during sex.But he caresses and strokes my arms and back which I find very loving and love. He loves oral sex ,... (231 words)

Male virgin and now in my 20s. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm am writing to get advice and opinions about my virginity and lack of relationship experience. I'm a male who has never had sex or a girlfriend. The reason for this a rather personal and complex.I have always had trouble making friends and relating to people. I have had... (159 words)

She's engaged but my boyfriend checks out her facebook page every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf n I have been dating for about 4 yrs now. We r both college grads n about to start professional schools. We have a solid relationship but one thing has always bothered me. My bf either has a crush or really really likes one of his friends from high school. Hes always ... (240 words)

Will I ever measure up to his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a nice guy for 4 months now. I really have a lot of feelings for him and we have a great connection. There is a big issue though. He got out of a serious 7 year relationship about 6 months before we met. I knew about this from the beginning but I was concer... (260 words)

He's sending me mixed signals. How should I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3127 days ago

29 May 2016 (?) age 36-40 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I am 25 and never been in a long term committed relationship. I always just focused on school and college and then my career, so i've been quite comfortable with being single, that is up until recently. My close friends have started to get married and ... (364 words)

Do I have a chance? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - Background: I'm a 13 yr old boy of Sierra Leonean descent(African) who lives in a south London flat, and I go to a private secondary boys school on a bursary in the center of London. I'm an only child and I never really knew my dad but that's beside the point. The girl I lik... (1312 words)

We me on an online site. Should I assume we are still in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Auntz. Ive fallen inlove so fast within a period of a month with a guy 9 years older than me from a dating site. He asked me to help him do a website for him because i told him my brother does that so at fast my brother wanted to do it for free because he thought i was pa... (311 words)

Why does my heart warm up when I see my ex? What's up with my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am now into my third year of a wonderful relationship. We got together about 6 months after breaking up with my daughters father, which was a very turbulent time. Some his fault, but I admit, I never made things easy by cheating several times(he only knew about one). ... (101 words)

My Bf wants to be single again to sort himself out. How can I cope with all the uncertainty of this change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years decided yesterday out of no where as things are going great that hes too stressed with everything going on in his life and wants to be single to sort himself out. It was totally out of the blue and I'm utterly heart broken, I have two children that are... (512 words)

How can I get the respect I seek from my husband and from his family? What will improve this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband told me he recents me for keeping him away from his family. I do keep him away from his family because HIS family doesn't like me . my marriage is falling apart over this we are at the point where either I let him be around his family or we are done. I don't ... (319 words)

Sexual tension you could cut with a knife... But we're both married. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3127 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have an issue at work that I need some help dealing with. There is this guy a few years older (married with kids) who has always on and off lightly flirted with me. I ignore him because I'm married as well. Over the past couple of months he has begun flirting much mo... (284 words)

Naming issues for our new baby. Are my reasons wrong? Should I reconsider?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3127 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there folks! Just need some advice. I'm pregnant due June 26th with a little boy, now to my dilemma. My partner and I tried to conceive for 9 months (been together for 3 1/2 years), I became pregnant he seemed pretty excited. He has two kids from a previous relation... (390 words)

Stuck in a terrible marriage. Do I stay or leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having trouble deciding whether to leave my marriage. I wonder how it all looks from the outside. We met as coworkers during a hard time in my life and slept together even though I made it clear I did not want that type of relationship. Eventually we developed a rock... (507 words)

Feeling obsessed and desperate. Who really is my baby's Daddy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

29 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I am really hoping someone can help me here with some advise and no judgment. I am 31 years old and married for 5 years. My husband and I share a daughter that is 3 years old. Last year we are having a lot of trouble in our marriage and separated for a ... (379 words)

I have anxiety and trust issues. What can I do to trust my BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3128 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) age 41-50 - Is it normal to worry that anytime your boyfriend is out of your sight, that he is cheating on you? I worry constantly. And it is affecting my peace of mind as it is eating away at me and causing me great anxiety and stress all of the time. I have been with him in a long... (355 words)

He is the best friend of a guy I used to like. Does the best friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3126 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So basically, about 2 years ago, I moved to a new college and so did a new friend that I had made. We both ended up really liking each other. His bestfriend also came to this new college too. At the beginning the bestfriend and I really got along. However, after a while th... (653 words)

When my BF was younger, before he knew me, he slept with some women who, then, were in their 40s. Why didn't he tell me earlier? I'm disgusted and very upset

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3127 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is older than I am. It seems like he loves me very much but yesterday, I found out that he slept with a couple of some who were in their forties when he was about twenty years old ( he slept with them at different times). This really hurt me. I cried when he told ... (234 words)

I believe that someone at work is stirring up trouble and trying to sabotage friendships with people I work with. How should I proceed to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3127 days ago

28 May 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - hello agony aunts I've got a problem which I hope you can solve for me, I feel as though someone at work is plotting against me and is telling untrue stuff about me to my friends and to a girl who I'm friends with about my past, he doesn't like me and I'm not particul... (187 words)

Dating problems. Where does one find the nice, genuine, yet good looking guys out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - It seems that every descent looking guy I come across ends up being a total a^^^ole! They turn out to be liars and cheaters and users and abusers and honestly I'm sick of it. They think that just because they are good looking they can step all over peoples feelings as if t... (126 words)

How do you treat your soon-to-be ex-husband as a friend after being together for years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3126 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - We were a couple for 10years, married for 4yrs. What issues I saw we had when we were young and didn't really focus on resolving it before it manifested during our marriage. It didn't help that I went through several personal strategy and depression kicked in. Long story... (422 words)

Age differences? Is this even worth continuing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3127 days ago

28 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I met an amazing woman the other day. I've already gone out with her a couple of times and we've even had sex. The only thing is that she's 35 and I'm 22. She also has a 12 year old boy. I've tried to talk myself out of this a million times, but that fact is, I'm attracte... (122 words)

Is my boyfriend's dirty laundry a sign of him cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3128 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - This morning i put on a wash and noticed a medium amount of white stain in my fiances underwear at the top of the pile. Excluding masturbation (as i was around him most of the day), can anyone tell me what this is? He did have a shower before he went to his physio ... she ... (143 words)

Is my friend is being passive-aggressive, or am I being sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3128 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my friend (we'll call him Ron) for almost 4 years. We met during the first year of university. I met a wonderful man (we'll call him Thomas) during my summer exchange program in another country. Over the past 1.5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship and... (373 words)

Should I tell my best friend this secret about her boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunt Advice needed!! I was catching up with an old high school friend, we were very close but we lost contact now in college were close again. We decided to go have a girls night, during the dinner she asked about my best friend and vice versa, she knows my best... (450 words)

Fantasizing about my husband's best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3128 days ago

28 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is a fair amount older than me and has a lower sex drive. On top of this I am also sexually attracted to multiple people at the same time. My husband's best friend is single and has been on a dry spell for about 5 years and is very comfortable around us. I'm very ... (101 words)

Do I tell the woman I'm dating that I had an affair with a married co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3129 days ago

28 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help, this has been driving me crazy recently, giving me endless sleepless nights. Ill set the context. Last August/September not other way of saying this other than I started having an affair with a married woman. Now im 26 and was free and single and the time she was ... (374 words)

How do I let others know that I'm a good friend and not snobby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

27 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi:) I believe I am an above average looking guy with a stable job and take good care of myself. I am very sociable with family but am quiet outside the home environment. I do not enjoy drawing attention to myself and would rather just be a part of the crowd when out with col... (118 words)

I think I've found my soul mate too early

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3128 days ago

27 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I want experience in the world. I'm just turned 18 and have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, the first boyfriend I ever had. He's had a couple of relationships before me and is now wanting to settle down and I don't know what to do. I'd love to get a flat ... (243 words)