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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was I in the wrong for asking him about the pictures and did he only tell me he wanted to make things work so he could have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3122 days ago

2 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my ex broke up with me about a month ago. Everything was going really well we'd made plans to live together when we'd both finished uni as I finish this year but he has one year left. He said that he never had a connection like the one he had with me and that he's never ... (840 words)

Do tough guys like it rough too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

2 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Do dominant guys like to be manhandled in bed too? When I usually hear people talk about rough sex they usually only talk about what the guy does to the woman. Are there any guys who aren't submissive who liked to be choked, slapped, or even bruised etc. too?... (49 words)

Porn addiction is a blight on my life. Please help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

2 May 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a huge issue. I left my wife a few months ago, an act of sheer madness on my part. I'd been having an emotional affair, I think because of a midlife crisis (no excuse) and had a massive panic attack, leaving my wife for the other woman. My wife filed for divorce... (477 words)

Am I being a fool or should I see him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

2 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 5 years ago. He was the sweetest. Well for the first time ever I felt myself being in love. He was the man of my dreams and even though I had a boyfriend and a kid, we still managed to hit it off. He was my secret lover for years until last year when I ... (181 words)

Ex' is haunting my dreams

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

2 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Just trying to understand this situation here. I've been in an relationship for nearly 3 years now and I'm very happy. Looking for a house together soon so things are going well. The concerning thing is i've started having repetitive dreams about an ex' of mine. This ex... (338 words)

Can he change? There's good and bad.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

2 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Married five years. With the exception of my pregnancy, my husband has emotionally and physically abused me the entire time. He talks down to me and expects everything in the house to be done his way from meals to laundry. When I do something wrong he calls me every bad name in ... (527 words)

Why do low-income families go on to have more children when it's hard to make ends meet?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

2 May 2016 (M) age 41-50 - Just curious, as I see tons of family's that have sometimes 4 or more children, yet have an extremely small income. You'd think it'd be the opposite, because the low-income families have neither the time nor the money to properly care for these children. Im sure some of them ... (127 words)

Did he just need some time for himself? Or was my Bf trying to create distance between us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) age 36-40 - Would you be upset with your long time BF if you just spent two weeks on vacation and the last two days you had together when you got back back home he did not stay at your place? Instead he went back to his for some "me" time? He could have spent the night with you on the l... (151 words)

Still in love though we have never acted on it. How long does it take before you fall out of love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

2 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a guy and I know that he's in love with me too (don't want to bore you with details). We are both married (he has kids) and work together. So it is totally inappropriate. We never acted on it and I never plan to act on it. I really respect the fact that... (354 words)

Worried he just wants to use me and dump me. Which test can I give him to confirn if his love for me is real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 25yrs old and my man is 32yrs old. We have been dating more than one year. He lives close to our neighbourhood before he relocated to another place. He is caring,loving,hardworking but he is a nagging type at times and complains that i'm too proud. Something strang... (108 words)

If you've already had sex, then which do you think is better - Affection or Sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

2 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't think I want to have sex. I thought I did and I was getting ready to lose my v card soon. But every time I think about sex...I'd say ninety percent of the reason I'd have it is because the guy wants it. I know it sounds stereotypical but I really do like romance and... (128 words)

Why will a married man NOT leave his mistress, even when affair is in danger of being exposed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) age 51-59 - Why won't a married man give up his long time mistress EVEN when their affair is in danger of being exposed to the world and to his wife? For example: Some people in their work place are starting to become suspicious. But he still won't leave his mistress of 3 years.... (54 words)

Love my Gf but my ex occupies my thoughts, a lot. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

2 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm going to try keep this brief for you. A year ago I was made heart broken when my girlfriend split up with me. It was very out of the blue and was a total shock. Throughout last year I suffered from a severe breakdown because of it, and have only really recently ... (412 words)