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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I seeing too much into this? Or is he seeing me as more than a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

20 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, this is my first time on a site like this and I think it's just so great to find something that allows us to help each other through our own unique experiences. To get to my situation: I am an openly gay male and I recently came in contact with a close friend o... (234 words)

What causes my GF to go from hot to cold towards me? Could it be depression or a mental health issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a gay female. I have a dilemma I need some advice about. I have been sleeping with a good friend of mine for about six months now. The problem is she blows very hot and cold on me regularly, and I don't know how to deal with it. For a month or two, she's perfectly fine a... (402 words)

How can I stop? My fiance is going to leave me if I don't stop this behavior.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3136 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am getting married in four months time, and my problem is this: basically I have been constantly obsessing over my partner's past, and all the things that he did wrong at the start of our relationship. I know it is irrational but cannot stop, and get really wound up and upset ... (442 words)

Did he or did he not? I am 16, why did my BF lie about losing his virginity and then change his story?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - So I have been with my boyfriend who I met at a concert for a month. We are both sixteen. We hadn't discussed sex at all until now. I was curious to know if he had sex before, but I wasn't bold enough to ask outright. So when we were finally talking about it, I asked will I be ... (189 words)

Can you recall regrets you felt as a result of getting divorced? Did people respect you less as a result?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How many of you regret getting a divorce?? How many of you feel you made the right or wrong decision? I'm my situation there are no kids involved. Did you remain friends with your ex? How close were you to their family and was it hard telling everyone what happened? Did ppl ... (56 words)

Married 4 years and still my husband only wants 'vanilla' sex. What can I do to ease him towards more and liven up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3135 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married close to 4 years and have always wanted to explore intimately with my husband and he is aware of this desire but seems uninterested with anything beyond "vanilla" sex. Lately I feel incomplete longing for more from him, the desires invade my dreams and I do... (99 words)

Yes my BF smokes but does that justify my family humiliating me and say abusive things. Is there a way to stop them doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend smokes weed and is open about it, I have been with him for a few years now. I only smoke every now and again My sister has called me all sorts of names daily such as stoner, etc...if I question anything anyone says or say anything she just says "wow your so p... (182 words)

Should my adult son's disrespectful behaviour be the subject of a discussion with him or should I just continue to mind my own business and stay silent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3135 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a mother of a 24 year old son, I can honestly say he was a great kid . He didn't get into much trouble as a teen and has always been very respectful. I come from a big family and a lot of them will say how great he was and is. He has been dating his gf for almost two year... (370 words)

Is it time to say 'NO,' (with no guilt), to E and mean it? Do children have to attend parties put on by overbearing parents?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3136 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this lady "E" who is driving me nuts! Her kids (boy and girl twins with the SAME gender neutral name,let's say J Lee and J Leigh) are turning 10 next month and she drove to our house to drop off an invitation and itinerary. Yes. An itinerary. This party is suppose... (688 words)

He is losing respect for me and its making me hate myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3137 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Don't get me wrong my manis god to me at times but I'm getting married in 2 weeks time but I need some advice on how to tell my husband to be to stop being so hard on me all the time especially the past 10 months. They're is in age gap between us it isn't huge but sometimes I ... (454 words)

Anxious every Friday that boyfriend will be drunk when I get home. What therapy will help me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3133 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Can anyone advise what type of therapy would help me. Every Friday I become so anxious wondering whether my boyfriend will be drunk when I get home I can hardly to my work. He knows I don't like it when he drinks too much and it usually ends in an argument. He drinks Friday ... (109 words)

I have a crush on my coach but does he like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3137 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I have a massive crush on my coach for a specific sport and I'm wondering if he likes me back or if it is all in my head? I just started a few weeks ago and I've learned his name and a bit about him, what school he went to, how old he is (sort of), his friends... (219 words)

Should I cut ties with the friend who still hears from the mutual friend I fell out with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3136 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a dilemma about a friend (Girl A) of mine who is also a friend with another girl that I had a bad fall out with (Girl B). The thing is - I got hurt and betrayed badly by Girl B - so after the fallout I tried to disassociate myself from both her and her close friends ... (260 words)

Could my ex be making fake profiles on an online dating service and then targeting me? My friends suggest, "yes" !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3137 days ago

20 May 2016 (M)

age - I just wondering if this has happened to any one else, in the past three weeks, four different women have been in contact with me, on an online dating service, which is where I met my ex, two from her town, one from my town, and one 45 miles from here. Every one thinks m... (197 words)

How can I introduce the subject of more sexual exploration and trying new things, to see if she is interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3135 days ago

20 May 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Myself and partner are due to get wed next year !! Wooo - Hooo !!! We have always been an extremely sexually active couple... For all the ten years of our relationship. More recently my mind has been open to even more sexual endeavors! We have always been open minded to ... (145 words)

What comes after divorce? What will my life to be like afterwards?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3136 days ago

20 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Debating divorce, what can I expect my life to be like afterwards?!?!?! I haven't been single since I was 16. I've only had one partner. I can cook, clean, pay bills, budget, keep books, fix minor mechanical issues in vehicles, I mow the lawn, weed, eat, build smaller struc... (157 words)