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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this synchronicity? Should I contact her or let her be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a few questions that I need help with. I am 40, I am attracted to woman and my husband knows. I have been waiting on a female, the right one so to speak. I found her, I think but its complicated. I have not talked with her for about 1yr 1/2. Sometimes out of th... (555 words)

Is it him that’s off? I think how I’ve acted and the messages I’ve sent are fine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been single for just over a year. I have been online dating. I met a guy and he was very keen 2 dates in he was saying if we get married would you take my second name? And my daughter would be happy here at the weekends with us. He's got his own house works et... (324 words)

Would our guests from Scandinavia be horrified to see ants in our home?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

9 May 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - We live in the USA and are not really into using poisons. Thus we have a fair number of ants in our house. Mainly the tiny little ones that don't bite or anything LOL Anyway, we have some houseguests coming to visit from Europe (Scandinavia). Do you think they will be hor... (69 words)

Should I leave my wife because of her fixation on finding “the big one”?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

9 May 2016 (M)

age - My wife is totally ignorant to me on occasssion. Thoughtless or worse. She cheated 4 years ago looking for 'the big one' as I caught her when she left FB open. It was a coworker and the brief fling happened after she lost her job. Turns out he was below average in size ... (437 words)

Are all European women this agressive? How about men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

9 May 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I move around a lot because of my work. We have been together for 18 years (married for 15). We both wear rings. And please understand that I am not writing this to brag, I have never been chased by ladies, I would really appreciate some input on European/French ... (575 words)

I put my foot in it! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in a condominium and have gotten the chance to know a lot of really lovely people. One of them is a lady "Mary" who has the absolute cutest baby daughter. She showed a mommy's day video made for her by her partner and I stupidly asked "Did your husband make it?" Not ... (225 words)

What if my ex tells people what we did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there, I'm just wondering about my ex. He fingered me when we were together and I gave him a wank. I'm scared he's gonna tell people I know and I'm scared if my friends find out that they will break our friendship and I end up with no friends. Also I I ever get a new ... (113 words)

I need to tell him I faked my pleasure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is slightly embarrassing, hence why I’m staying anonymous. Basically I lied to my boyfriend about liking anal sex and he now wants to make it a regular thing. Do I tell him the truth that I was ‘faking it?’ This all happened last week. We were having another wild sex... (334 words)

How do I tell the FWB it can’t happen anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend ill call him ( a ) and we are friends with benefits but now ive met someone else call him ( b ) and we plan on having a relationship once hes back from his family holiday (no wife no kids hes single) How do i tell (a) friend with benefits that ive found someone ... (91 words)

Is he faking his love for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this guy for 3 months now, he had always been a very nice guy and treats me with respect. He spends hours talking to me non stop. He always flirt with me and always opens up to me and shows me how deep and how sensitive and emotional he is. He did adm... (305 words)

Should I choose a University in London to give our relationship a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I really love this guy, we haven't gotten into a serious long term relationship yet but he continues to tell me he loves me and wants me in his life for a very long time however we have never directly talked about marriage as it is too soon and i feel we are both too young. H... (136 words)

I found out by accident that my biological parents are not the parents who brought me up. I feel hurt and so confused. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F) age 22-25 - I found out something awful and I'm hurt and disappointed and don't know what to do. My mom's brother and my dad's sister used to date in high school. I never met my uncle because he's been in prison since I was 9 and we live states away from our family. I met my aunt a fe... (374 words)

Does he sound insecure? Should I have given him more reassurance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy of 45 three months ago. We went out on a few dates and by the 3rd date he was all over me, wanted to be more than friends. We began properly dating. He sent me a rose, and told me a month in that I had his heart. He said he couldn't believe he'd found me and tha... (319 words)

Is this one to keep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for 2, 2.5 years. We always get on very well in groups but don't really talk outside of seeing each other at gigs/parties. He had a girlfriend until about 6 months ago. She was lovely but he used to occasionally say things like 'you and her are ... (277 words)

Has my boyfriend overstepped the mark?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'd like to seek your opinions on the following scenario: My boyfriend and I were attending a wedding banquet and seated at a table with people we recently met. I'd like to highlight two girls in that table: Susan and her older sister Allie. Susan was sitting next to ... (434 words)

How do I tell my friend to back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Any tips or advice would be helpful right now. I have a friend who is 44, we met through work years ago and when she left we still remained friendly. We'd go out for lunch or for coffee etc... As soon as she found out I got engaged she started bombarding me with ideas... (565 words)

Is this liason weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 25 and he's 30. We've been dating 5 weeks and are exclusive. I posted earlier about him inviting me to LA with him on business trip (in a month). We plan to go sightseeing together for a few days. Our connection is amazing and we talk about anything and everything. Thin... (191 words)

Family issue I never mentioned earlier. Is it reason enough to (possibly) not wish to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am in quite a fix please help me out here I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year,a few weeks ago I told him something about my "so called" family member (we are not in touch,our families don't talk to each other,they have been nothing but a pain to my dad and ... (244 words)

Why can't I get over him? Why is he still in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi guys i have this problem i went out with this guy and he cheated on me and we broke up. B ut i cant get over him i always think about him, and he's a family friend, so i see him a lot and its so awkward to be around him. I don't want it awkward but it is i just miss him wh... (81 words)