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30-35,
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writes:My husband is a fair amount older than me and has a lower sex drive. On top of this I am also sexually attracted to multiple people at the same time. My husband's best friend is single and has been on a dry spell for about 5 years and is very comfortable around us. I'm very attracted to him and having sex could solve a lot of both of our needs. I am in no way unhappy in my marriage or unattracted to my husband but I'm not sure how to broach the subject to either of them...any tips?
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (28 May 2016):
Have you considered what will happen to the friendship between this fellow and your husband? Even if you disclose this to just one of them, it would almost certainly make things very awkward between them or all three of you.
You've said nothing about how your husband may feel about this. Very, very few guys would accept their wife having sex with anyone, especially their best friend.
For the sake of your husband and his friend, it is best that you don't follow thru on this. While I don't recommend it, I really think you'd be better off cheating with someone your husband doesn't know. There are just too many things that can go wrong here.
If you really have to do this, talk with your husband first (not his friend).
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reader, miss frank  +, writes (28 May 2016):
Hi. There's a lot of this type of question at the mo! Summer is approaching maybe? People in unsatisfactory relationships...i don't know.How long have you been with him? How much older is he? You going to start with him and have a life time of sex with others, that he will agree with you think? No, no... The friend is going through a dry spell? You have sex, then what? Em, no, I don't think this will solve your problem... You are a young woman who is Horney and wanting sex with multiple others... At some point that itch will build unhappiness and resentment... It may be already. Is this what you want for your life long term?
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