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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know my jealousy is irrational!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal to feel jelous that my partner has kids with his ex but not with me? I understand that it is not rational to think this way but I can't help it. I think it is because it is the most personal thing that there is between two people, and I don't have that with him. I ... (102 words)

I don't know how to react or show emotions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

13 May 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - What is up with me? I tend not to respond emotionally to situations but to think about the best way to respond. Recently my brother called to tell me my nephew was involved in a road accident, i was at work at the time. I asked a couple of questions and said i will be over as ... (177 words)

I just wish she would initiate contact first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

13 May 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve been dating a lovely girl for four weeks. I text her good morning every day, to which she responds right away. We usually have conversation, with both of us keeping the conversation going. It’s very balanced. The conversation usually tapers off by itself. Sometimes I’ll ... (218 words)

I like him but don't want to waste my emotions only to find out he doesn't feel the same way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been battling depression for a couple of years, I have never dated because I'm always too scared. I always cut them off as soon as possible. Recently I met this guy, he is one hell of a something, he is always happy and full of life, unlike me, besides that we are both ... (206 words)

What does it mean when a man plays with his wedding ring while he talks to you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunties! Just wondering if it means anything if a man slides his wedding ring up and down his finger while he talks to you and twists it? It is so distracting!! ... (32 words)

Did I miss the red flags on our first dates?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if I had missed this red flag? On a first date with a guy he mentioned his ex. He went a little into detail saying he had a 16 year old son and that he had to take his ex to court to get access to him. This I believe was some years ago. I was wondering why yo... (241 words)

I'm suspicious of the friendship my husband has with his female boss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I need advice in what to do. I am withy bf for 2 years.He was working in a place for 2 years and in that time he became friend with his female supervisor. A lady like 15 years older than him, they both speak the same mother language because they are from the same culture ... (508 words)

We have a complicated 30 years together. I want to help my husband but don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I were high school sweethearts. I was his first and he lied and said he had a few and I also lied and told him I had 2-3. It was a lot of partners. He has defended my honor in this little town we live in and has never questioned my trust. I sought therapy ... (1475 words)

I'm married and had sex with a married man and now he wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i am a married and have 10 childrens with my husband...I had sex with a a married man and then fell in love with him, after that only one day of sex in the park he now ignores me...and acts like i dnt exist im angry and feel like he used me...what do i do...i get angry e... (160 words)

Should I worry that he's 13 years younger than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with the most wonderful guy for the past 4 months. He's intelligent, funny, affectionate, and romantic. He really cares about me and I care about him. He treats me like a princess and tells me that I am the sweetest woman he's ever been with. The problem? He is 13 ye... (111 words)

Should I ask my co-worker out to lunch?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

13 May 2016 (?) age 36-40 - I am interested in my coworker. Should I ask her out to dinner? Signs (I think) she likes me: 1) The way she looks at me. I could just be entranced by her eyes/smile. 2) She eats her lunch when I do. I asked her to lunch today and she said yes! 3) She mirrors my a... (191 words)

Is he breaking up with me or just needs time? Where do I stand with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

13 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone! I'm in limbo with a man I have been seeing for the last 2 months. Everything between us has been going great, we enjoy each other's company and are very attracted to one another. He, however, is going through a lot of tough times, which he has been very op... (771 words)