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writes:Me and my boyfriend used to get sexual fairly often, but we have not(and will not until the future) had sex with each other. I enjoy it, but for some reason i just haven't really wanted to lately. it has nothing to do with him, i find him very attractive and I love him very much. i also enjoy pleasuring him, it makes me feel good and i know he appreciates it a lot. i just don't really want to be on the receiving side. I don't know, it just makes me feel weird. He would never want me to do anything I don't want to, and because of this we haven't gotten intimate (sexually) in some time, and i know he misses it. I don't really know what I should do, I like to pleasure him, but i also think it hurts his feelings when I don't want it in return. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2013): You're still young, i think your reluctance on being pleasured comes because you're not yet comfortable with your body and exposing your private parts. Take it bit by bit, he'll do a little this today then a little more the other day until you're ready to let go. Are you comfortable with him in other things? Like farting infront of him for instance?lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2013): Girl, you just don't like receiving it because he's probably doing it wrong. Tell him what he needs to do down in your lady parts. You'll like it if you tell him what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2013): Do you think you are attractive yourself? A lot of women's lack of ability to really let go and plug into the sexual experience comes from when we are not comfortable with our own bodies.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 September 2013):
 When it comes to sex, anything that's not painful I would just give in. It's too sensitive of him to feel hurt by this though. Try your best to explain to him why cunnilingus is not enjoyable to you. He is thinking that you don't want to share your private part with him.
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