A
male
age
36-40,
*lias me
writes:there is this girl that I fancied for a while but I never did anything as she had a long term boyfriend. Despite this she always seems flirty with me always gigling and smiling when she spoke to me, always touching me as she walked past. Always emailing asking me questions about my love life all the time asking me about sex, if she doesnt see me for a while she always went on about how misses me. Always asking me about when I will next be going with everyone else... Just recently I found out that she broke up with her boyfriend and now shes completely different, I may get the odd smile but she barely talks to me now, she will ignore me now when we are with groups of people and acts normal with everyone else. Shes started being extremely flirty with a couple other guys but she barely responds to me now. She literally walks away when I approach..can I have some advice on what to do, or can someone explain the situation...
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (7 September 2013):
I'd guess she liked flirting with you when the two of you hooking up wasn't an option. But now that it is she may feel she needs to be a little cold so you don't get any ideas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2013): Maybe her boyfriend found out that she was flirting with you.
Maybe she's just too much of a flirt, and feels guilty when it comes to you. Crushes tend to run their course, and now she has new interests. She's not going to take anyone too seriously fresh after a breakup. So she's taking a little break, to let things with you cool down a little.
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