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writes:Hi, There is this guy i used to like 3 year ago. We got together, as in kissed, and later on we realised there is no point and honestly i do not think he liked me enough. So, we didnt speak for few months i would say and then we started hanging out very often. And now we are really good friends for 2 years. We went on holiday together this summer, we chill at my place, we go out, etc. I feel great being friends with him to be honest. Like for example this summer holiday, he was taking care of me that i ate, that i have a pillow and so on cos i slept in a bed with him and his friend, so on. And like when we are out we were all drunk, like me,him and freinds, and we would hold hands, he would still take care, etc. Even when we are sober in general we will hug and so on, but in a friendly way.Now the thing is I'm confused...haha.So all this is happening, and i see it as a friendly was to be honest, cos we can hug etc, talk about anything,etc. But does guy/girl friendship exist? How should i know if he likes me? Any opinion on all this?Thank you xx
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (7 September 2013):
 Again, I agree with iAmHereToHelpYou.
You are hanging around him hoping he will realize that YOU are a great catch, and in that process you are holding yourself back from finding a guy who is a good fit for you.
You are still more worried about "if" he likes you then just accept that he has friend-zoned you. (which isn't bad, if you can accept that it's a friendship and nothing more).
I would be cautious with this guy, because he knows you like him and that means you might be up for some FWB or whatever and that will ONLY hurt you in the long run.
Keep it friendly.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (7 September 2013):
 Anything is possible in a world of possibilities
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