A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hey everyone....I started work about four months ago. And I met a guy there, I was instantly drawn to him. I have been single for more than two years and I have not been attracted to any guy since. Therefore my attraction to this guy is kind of a big deal....The guy left work about two months ago to pursue his masters degree, I was very disappointed. but he is like a four hours drive away. The thing is, the time he was still at work, I could tell that he was really into me, but he never made a move. I found this very irritating, I even created opportunities for him but he said and did nothing. Sometimes I would find it to be very confusing because he would act like he not into me and at times he act like he is into me...Well about a month after he left, he sent me a friend request on facebook. We started communicating. The problem is that we have been chatting almost everyday but he still hasn't said anything and I don't know if we are dating or not...It is frustrating. I really like him and I want to start a relationship with him. I think he is a very shy guy and I don't want to sound like I am pressuring him if I start asking him about us. But everyday that passes I am loosing patience with him. I don't want to end up wasting my time with him.Should I ask him or should I wait for him to say something.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 November 2013):
Well if all you are doing is chatting on Facebook then you definitely aren't dating. Why not arrange for you guys to actually meet up face to face and not Facebook to Facebook?
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