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So far everything's been on her terms

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Question - (11 November 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2013)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met a girl a few months ago, she is really lovely and funny and when we meet up we have such a good time together. Problem is she is rubbish at getting in contact, so the oonly time we properly talk is when we arrange to meet. Anyway things were going really well and then she went a bit weird the past month. She said she has been in a weird place and not feeling great and I thought that this is problem the end of our 'fun'. Anyway, she has got back in touch and wants to meet again, saying she feels better now. I kind of want your advice to whether I should meet her or not, will she just keep doing this? ditching me when she doesn't feel quite right? and then getting back in touch on her terms. Or should I meet and actually tell her that I really like her and would like to spend more time with her? We fancy each other massively, but we have not really spoke about how we feel really. Should I give it a chance or should I just leave it?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (13 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntONE MORE LAST chance can't hurt... THIS ONE TIME...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2013):

I would give her one more chance, when you see her tell her how you feel at least that way it is out in the open and she knows how you feel. Otherwise you will always wondering what could of happened.

Take control and find out where you stand.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (11 November 2013):

Why don't you give her another chance? One incident isn't necessarily an indication of the way things will always be. Just take things slowly, otherwise you risk getting hurt if she does have another incident.

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