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writes:hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for years but it has been a rocky road for one reason and another.He has called me by his colleagues name a couple of times recently. The last time was this weekend, I felt very suspicious this time for some reasons, more than before. Later that day I came across an email from the same colleague, she had ended it with "I love you" in Turkish.He had replied "Hi gorgeous" and ended it with "I love you too, xx", in Turkish When I approached him he said it meant nothing and that it was just them being silly. I cant stop thinking about it. Even if nothing has gone on, it still isn't the right thing to be saying....Should I approach her? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 November 2013):
 Wow what would you approach HER with?
do you think she's going to tell you your man is cheating on you with her?
do you think it will make her stop?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2013): No, you don't approach her - it's HIM you are in a relationship with. It always bugged me on Cheaters when the cheated partner fights with the new love interest - it's your partner who is cheating, he made the commitment to you, not her.As for him joking or making trivial the "I love you" any fool can see what it really is.Move on, fast!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2013): You are in one of those positions where you think you can fix the situation by getting rid of secondary issues. You have to learn to accept that it is what it is
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reader, Goldiefoxxx +, writes (12 November 2013):
infidelity for sure, Hes having some sort of relationship with this woman, hes mixed his business with play, dont confront her, what good would it too, even if shes fully aware of you, she clearly does not care. Get rid of him, i can smell his crap from a mile a way, pick up your head princess, your tiara's falling.
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reader, cgrlygo +, writes (12 November 2013):
 the only reason to approach her is if she is the one cheating on you.... she's not. He is. there is no way... they are just being silly... LOVE IS NOT A SILLY THING TO SAY its a serious thing to say. Don't be fooled.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2013): Time to pull over, get off the rocky road; and kick your boyfriend to the curb.
If you're not getting along, and he's supposedly exchanging sweet-talk with another woman. How much evidence do you need to make the decision to move on?
Why would you confront her? She's not your allegedly cheating boyfriend.
Let me guess. You love him?
Seems your feelings and arrows are aimed at the wrong target.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (12 November 2013):
Approach her? Is she cheating on you?
The one who's being inappropriate is the one with a commitment to you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 November 2013):
Nope. No need to approach her. Leave her well out of it. He's the one you need to approach. He's clearly cheating on you, and if I were you, I wouldn't waste time trying to get answers from her.
Instead, look at your own relationship, look at this boyfriend of yours, and make a decision about whether you want to be with some liar like him.
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