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writes:I do like having sex with my boyfriend bt i am facing the problem, he is sex rider n make me be on the mood with no doupts. My problem is he takes 2hours 2 make one round bt only if he use condom, when we sex without condom he takes 20-30 min then i dont like sex without condom and i am not sex rider i cant manage sex for 2hours and he like having sex me... Help me do i dump him because cant manage sex for 2hrs or may i stop using condom i do like him
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (12 November 2013):
 I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about this, tell him how much you enjoy having sex with him but, be honest, tell him that 2 hours of riding is just not doing it for you and that you don't enjoy it!
Condoms are very important if you're unsure of his sexual history and health or are protecting yourself from unwanted pregnancy but they are obviously reducing his sensitivity.
If you are only using condoms because you prefer sex with them from a "cleaning up" point of view, and are otherwise safe and protected, then perhaps your boyfriend can use the withdrawal method instead.
Perhaps you both need to explore new foreplay and techniques to heighten each others sexual pleasure and experience without just being pounded for hour on end.
If he won't listen to you or isn't keen to try new things then you may need to reconsider this relationship but not because of the sex but because you would have a boyfriend who would not consider your needs or opinion.
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 November 2013):
 Uhm. . In your country many people would tell you to wear a condom no matter what, no excuse. Although I don't like condoms myself and had used birth control pills (I don't like it either). What an inconvenience sex can be. What I would suggest is to have sex with him for an hour or whatever limit yours is, then have him masturbate to finish. No need to dump him. Endurance is always better than premature ejaculation.
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