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26-29,
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writes:I've known this girl for a while now, She's my bestfriend, but I think I'm starting to fancy her, a lot. I've never felt like this with another girl before, so it's a strange feeling for me. I've never thought about being with another girl before, she is the only girl that I've ever found attractive. She's told me that she isn't a lesbian nor anything else, but she really does try her best to get close to me at any opportunity she has. She sends me lots of little wink faces and flirtatious jokes, she'll find any reason to touch me really. So it's making me even more confused about everything. Sometimes she's really close to me and I just feel like leaning in for a kiss, but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. I find myself fantasying about her when I'm sat right next to her. I come home and I wish she was still with me, I sometimes get myself so frustrated that I can't do anything about it. I don't want to say or do anything that will affect our relationship because I've got to the point where I don't know what I'd do without her on a daily basis. I come home I message her, I'm out I'm constantly with her. All I keep thinking to myself is what if she thinks exactly the same and we're both thinking the same thing. So I don't want to tell her because it might ruin our friendship, but I can't carry on like this or else I'm going to make myself crazy! So to tell her or not to tell her really?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (11 November 2013):
 I wish I could tell you to go for it and live happily ever after but there are things you need to consider first.
It is important to ask yourself is your friendship strong enough to move on from you telling her and her not feeling the same? If yes that is a good start! If no then you need to understand what a big risk it is.
Also if she does feel the same you need to think about what you want, do you just want the sex, a relationship. It is important to think about this.
You could try something less intense like kissing her and if she isn't into it try and laugh it off and call it a mistake.
Basically you need to decide if it is worth the risk.
Good luck!
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