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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My all relationship get off to similar start and end in a same pattern.In short words, girls like me being sweet and making them laugh. As time goes on, they find me little cheesy and care too much for them which makes them bored of me. Like when I had a Girlfriend in US, I would call my US girlfriend in the middle of the night making sure she was fine. Then in movies, I would see some hot actress and wish my partner could be like her, then intrusive thoughts hit my mind that I made a mistake getting into this relationship and should have waited more and more beautiful girl might have come into my life. But I never ended any of my past relationships, other party did it and remained loyal in all relationship. Do I want everything in a relationship? And accept the reality that something would be always missing ? Do I sound clingy by caring too much for others? Please, please tell me that what is my problem? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2013): I have a feelings that it's not that they find you cheesy, but they feel how not sincere you are.What I get from your post that you don't really like any of them, constantly thinking about a better more beatifull body of another girl. And your concern Ina middle of the night is just fake behavour. Women feel it right away, there is no hiding. That's why they dump you.
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