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female
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anonymous
writes:Dear cupid I kind of have a problem. I don't think my boyfriend can completely let go of his ex girlfriend.When we got together he was still missing his ex and not completely over her. He's still basically friends with her. They talk and text each other and still have mutual friends.I decided to talk to him about it one day and he now knows that I'm upset and uncomfortable about it. But the thing is I still think and worry that he still talks to her. I over-think and think that if they talk that feelings will come back between them and he will leave me for her or something like that.I know this is bad but I don't know how to deal with it anymore, I don't want to keep worrying. What should I do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 November 2013):
 do they talk and text regularly... do they meet up?
my ex husband and I talk occasionally and we share many friends and we can easily be in a room together... but I don't consider him a FRIEND...
just talking does not mean you will develop feelings again...
what else other than your own insecurity is leading you to feel this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2013): To be honest and i dont want to upset you, but they could still love each other.
I had a ex who i was with for 5 year and we decided we were no good together so we stayed friends but it go in the way with my new bf as i always thought about him and we use to talk every day.
Until i knew i had to cut contact with him to move on. Until this day i still think of him and i will always have love for him.
You need to have a heart to heat with ur bf and find out what he feels for you and how he feels about her. It might upset u but it needs to be done.
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