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writes: I met a guy about a month ago on a dating site and I have been a little unsure about him because he has some insecurity issues and trust issues. But then again I do too, but I am in therapy for it. I think about him every day. We went out on one date already and I have been waiting for him to ask me out again. We had such a good time. Just recently I sent him a sexy text and he responded very well to it. He was really excited about it! He then sent me one doing the same thing. It was more or less telling each other our fantasies about one another. I wanted to remind him of the good time we had. And he remembered what I wore, and I remembered what he wore. We haven't gone to dinner or anything yet, I am hoping that he will be drawn to me even more like he was in the beginning. I think the thing that really makes me like him more is that he is smart, funny, and spontaneous, and a great kisser and I thought he was just bragging about that before we went on a date, He said he couldn't wait to kiss me. He kissed me so passionately and looked deeply into my eyes, then referred to it as a peck later on that week in his text.People have been advising me to date other guys until he figures out what he wants from me. I have some guys that I speak to that are pen pals who ask if I am seeing anyone and I don't want to lead them on but I like talking to them but most of them are far away and I have never met them. A few of them said they would date me if they lived closer to me. In the past I have fallen for guys too quickly. I don't usually believe in love at first sight, but I can't stop thinking about this guy. I can't eat sometimes or sleep. We have quite a few things in common and it wasn't easy with him in the beginning, but now I accept him for who he is. I told him that he can trust me and that I like and appreciate him. He responded very well and thanked me. One Sunday he sent me a text out of the blue saying "Hi sexy." I was so happy and I sent one back. I try to give him space and try not to seem to desperate. He has also been expressing his sexual feelings for me and I am extremely attracted to him too, and he has been very explicit with some of the things he wants. I want to sleep with him but I want us to get to know each other. A few weeks ago he was upset because I am still on another dating site and he is a bit jealous and it has shown through his texts. The reason I stay on the dating site is because if things with him don't work out, I will still be able to keep in touch with my guy friends on there. I don't want my heart broken again. I just want a guy who will put me first and love me. So I can't understand why he acts this way and he hasn't made a move on me for another date. He swears he is not dating anyone else. Any suggestions?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (1 November 2013):
 if he's already being overly sexual then the only thing he probably wants is to get laid.
also if you spend more time texting or talking on the phone than getting together he's a time waster plain and simple.
I'd cut my losses and move on.
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