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writes:Hey guys, so I've been out of action from a dating scene for awhile (about a year and a half) and I've developed a fancy for one of my workmates. We get along really well, conversation flows easily, hes funny witty- everything I like in a guy. We went out for some work drinks last Friday and it was mainly me and him. I just... I have no idea if he feels the same way and there are a couple of factors to consider:There is a slight age gap I'm 25 and hes 36 but that doesnt concern me at all but should I *be* concerned about it? I havent had sex in about a year (it's killing me! just havent found the right person, was in a 3 year relationship prior to this etc etc) but I'm also worried that I have what I call 'no sex eyes' in which I'm kind of attracted to most men. All men. Annnnd last but no least he is a work colleague. Now we are in the same training team at the moment but that ends next week and we will have different hours, different place in the centre etc. It's not uncommon for people at my work to get together (it's a very large call centre) but I also dont want it to backfire. We were exchanging emails at work today and before I left for the day I emailed him my ph num. he had a gig tonight (hes in a band) and I havent heard anything but I feel like a young school girl and it's frustrating! Even if I could make a move I dont even know where to start. Ahhhhh advice? Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2013): He is definitely probably interested haha! No, you shouldn't be worried about the age gap, it will never have any effect on you! Good luck and keep flirty! :)
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (1 November 2013):
This is a big question to answer as I don't know you or him. An easy place to start would be eating lunch together (alone) or getting coffee. It's harmless, but can give you a better idea of where their head is at, not to mention it can help solidify a connection if there is one.
Where to go from there would be up to you... feel free to ask him out if the mini date goes well. But if you have to ask him out again after that, you may just want to forget about him.
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