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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:One of my guy friends is confusing me! We met a few months ago and admitted a mutual attraction right away. We never refer to one another as a friend because there is just so much sexual tension. We have even gone on a few dates (as recently as Memorial Day weekend). My problem is that he gives me mixed signals. . Like last weekend, we were hanging out with a group of people at a mutual friend's house when he picked me up and carried me to the couch and started nibbling on my neck. He also gets super jealous if other guys talk to me or even if some girlfriends and I are discussing "hot" guys. But on the other hand, lately several days pass without me hearing from him. I am trying not to read too much into it since he is busy working on a graduate program..but I am still having doubts if this is something worth pursuing
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2013): Why does it have to be him to make the move? We are in 2013. Get liberated!! Ask him... Kiss him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2013): If a man is truly interested, he will lock-in a relationship right away by monopolizing your time (weekly dates, calls each day) and then trying to make things official through a title (girlfriend/fiance).
If he isn't doing this, than he is stringing you along.
I wouldn't let him get too touchy feely or be territorial without these two in place. No sex either. Otherwise, you'll be at risk of being used, becoming a friends with benefits or just being strung along for a long time while missing out on guys that do actually want to date you.
Next time he does any of this - get annoyed and asking him "what are you doing?? We're not dating and your definitely not my boyfriend".
Respect yourself dear.
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