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I've never taken a guy on a date, what should I plan to do in London when he comes to visit?

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Question - (25 February 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello aunts and uncles,

I'm 20 years old and I live in London, and there's a guy that I'm talking to who's 21 and he lives in Leicester, just over 100 miles away from me.

I met him when I was in Leicester visiting my friends at their university 4 months ago, so we have been speaking over the phone and via text for 4 months. I have become very fond of him and I do like him, and he has told me he likes me too.

He said that he would like to see him again and that he will come down to London for two days (one night) to see me, as he has never been to London before.

Now, the thing is, I'm not experienced with dating, I have never taken a guy out on a date, and seeing as he is coming to London for the first time, I obviously have to show him around. What are a couple of things that I can do, I've planned to take him to a few tourist attractions, but I would like to really plan a lovely day with him, and I want him to enjoy everything that we do so that he's not bored, especially since he's making the effort to come to my area for me.

Any suggestions? You don't have to live in London to answer, but if you do, that would be helpful :)

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A female reader, when nothing goes right go left United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2013):

when nothing goes right go left agony auntIt will be hard for him to get bored because its london and there is so much to do. I agree with cindycares that it depends on whats his

interests are and go from there. And you should also find out what kind of the food he likes because it is his first time in london then the london eye would be a great experience for you to both enjoy the and show him around and see the street entertainers, go shopping in one of the big

shopping centres or around the lanes or you could go to one of the nice pubs and listen to some live music.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (25 February 2013):

CindyCares agony aunt OP, I don't live in London but I know it very well, and, in short, the simplest thing you can do is to buy Time Out London of that week and take your inspiration from there, according to his interests and tastes . Whatever he likes, he'll find it in London, - nightlife, music, theatre, sports, shopping, art, museums , restaurants, etc. There are also special interests guided tours too in both " classic " and less explored, alternative parts of London. Check the listings for the week when he's there and I am sure you'll come up with lots of options.

I have also heard that since Feb. 1st you can book a View from the Shard - a 360 degree view of London from the top of the tallest building in Europe, it is supposed to be super romantic at sunset :).

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