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writes:hilittle about me : (not boasting)I am confident, easy to approach and Like jokes and talented. I play sports (four currently at campus) , write , and down to earth and honest. Helpful and kind with people. I have lots of other hobbies too. I m famous at university n find many girls checking me out! I wasn't interested at all until one girl caught my attention whom I am currently pursuing. I didnot tell her much about me to be mysterious and also I don't like boasting.I am seeing this girl whom I like. we study at same university! problem is she seems like girl not into relationship or maybe playing hard to get. today talking to her, she told me few things. tell me if they were negative or positive n what that suppose to mean? you have got intense stare (I caught her looking at me and I waved at her n smiled) you are friendly but at times over friendly (I tend to approach people anytime) you like change and move around people (I socialize alot with girls n guys, almost all campus knows me) you creep me at times (I flirted with her saying you are hard to ignore n she went blank! later, at playing sport, she mimicked me repeating I was joking three four times (I said 'I was joking ' when she later mentioned that that ) saying she won't answer me like that.plus I m really funny guy but I was blanking out in front of her (in campus, I tend to make everyone laugh n they love it) How to get her and how to take my game?? does she seem interested and what are things I should do to increase my chances of getting her? Help agony aunts and uncles!
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (26 February 2013):
Hey sorry for dogging your writing, I'm just realizing that English is probably not your first language.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your time, your opinions and help . Highly appreciated! Basically, the girl I am pursuing is a bit different and it seems she is looking for some challenge before she opens up a bit.What I have noticed is she is trying hard to get. My essay got approved for publication, everyone appreciated and she just managed to say not bad! I am left with 3 choices :1. Tell her, I like her and see what happens .2. Ignore her for a week and then see if she wants my attention or tries to approach me. 3. Give some time to know her more and let her know me at the same time as well. what do you all reckon ?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 February 2013):
 She does not sound interested. I think the best tactic is to ignore her completely (don't look at her, even if she is looking at you) and be usual self with all your friends and admirers. She will start a conversation with you if she is interested after all that. If not, well, I'm sure there are many other candidates for your affection.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (25 February 2013):
Man, I don't mean to burst your bubble but, given what she said, not to mention your own statements, you might not be quite as amazing as you think.
I'm only saying this because a little bit of reality is needed; I'm sure you're awesome, but it sounds like you're a little oblivious to any flaws you may have.
For instance: You said that you write... I realize dear cupid isn't being graded but your writing here is completely riddled with major issues.
Again I'm not trying to be a jerk, I'm saying this because if you can't learn to recognize your imperfections you'll never be able to improve yourself. If what I'm saying isn't going in one ear and out the other, congratulations.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 February 2013):
 Sounds to me like she's out-hard-to-getted you!!!!! Is she as humble about herself as you are?????
Good luck...
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (25 February 2013):
 To me from what you've said she isn't interested she seems to think you move from girl to girl because you're so popular around your campus.She maybe challenging you thinking that you are just interested in her until someone else "better" comes along or maybe she thinks why you're picking her when you go to different girls all the time.I think she's being very closed off from you because she feels you're going to just move on anyways when you find someone else, because everyone knows you and you're popular with girls and guys she probably feels you're just going to get to know her not like her and find another girl to be interested in.She may have been hurt by guys and is a little afraid to let her guard down to you in case she experiences that hurt again.Try asking to take her somewhere to get to know her better.
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