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male
age
36-40,
*edneck1
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now, and i love her to bits. we recently moved in together and it seemed perfect, but 2 weeks later she told me she was unhappy. we used to say we wanted to get married, and live a long life together, now she wants a break, to see if she really loves me or if we have outgrown each other. She still really cares for me, loves me and wants me to be happy, but she not sure if she is truly in love with me. She said there is a guy at work who likes her a lot and she said she is happy around him, and isn't sure how she feels about it. I dont like this guy. Not only because of this but he just rubs me the wrong way. The only part im really having trouble with me personally away from the relationship was she had said we were too different and that she would be ok with me dating her friend ( me and her friend are a lot alike) and she can see me being with her and being happy. Since she said that i can see myself with her, but i want to be with my girlfriend i have now more than anything. I was ready to propose anyday, now this. So what im curious is two things, what should i do about my current girlfriendd, and am i bad person for kinda getting a crush on my girlfriend's best friend in this crazy time?
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (4 September 2012):
 HI
Seems to me your girlfriend has made a point, if she is thinking about this guy at work and now you can see yourself with her friend it says it all, your not meant for each other. I would take this as a polite hint that its over between you both. However I would not jump into another relationship just yet, you need to get over this first, if you both DO end up getting back together then it's a bonus. I hope it all works out for you both .
Mandy x
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