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Why didn't he reply to my message but did ask my friend about me? Are there feelings there for me?

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Question - (4 September 2012) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Mexico age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this guy (let's call him B) a little over a year ago on a trip, he was friends with my best friend, we started dating while one our trip and decided to see where things would go after we were back in the city (we both live in the same city). So yeah, we had fun, we talked for a while via texting after we got home and then he went on a trip to Europe and when he got back I didn't hear from him again.

After a month or so I got back with my boyfriend who I had broken up with a while ago and he was so jealous of B that he deleted this guy from my Facebook when I wasn't looking.

He noticed that I deleted him and told my best friend about it and I felt bad, because I didn't want him to think that I had any grudges against him (I really didn't! because that's usually how ''summer loves'' go, you meet each other, have fun for a while and then never talk again)

Since then I messaged him on Facebook and explained what had happened and we agreed to be friends.

We rarely talk, although once every two months or so he would write me an inbox message asking how i was and we would talk for a while. T

he last time we talked was about 6 months ago and he told me he was having trouble with his girlfriend who cheated on him a lot, so I told him to break up with her. if he wasn't happy and the next day he did!

About a month ago I sent him a message on Facebook just asking how he was and he never replied, so I thought ''Oh, well, he doesn't want to speak with me anymore for whatever reason'', however last weekend he hung out with my best friend and he asked her how I was and all that stuff.

My question is, why didn't he reply to my message but did ask my friend about me?

Sorry if my question seems kinda dull, I'm just curious. I still have feelings for this guy, not the ''I want him back!'' type of feeling, just... I don't know, feelings which I can't explain, and sometimes I think he does too.

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