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*akshmi456
writes: I loved a girl of my age. she is my childhood class mate in 6th standard. I love her more than anyone. I have proposed her through email i have written more than ten emails. She didnt reply me. She wot lift my call. I sent an email that "pls say yes or no or wait for some time" . even then i dint get reply... it is hard to live without her...........pls help me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 December 2012):
NO reply means NO honey....
she's not interested.
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female
reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (7 December 2012):
HI
your going all about this the wrong way. Why have you not asked her to her face? you don't propose via email! maybe this is why she will not reply. Also you are coming across as desperate and bordering stalker, so you probablly scared her away. May I suggest you ask her if you could speak to her face to face. Although I think maybe your flogging a dead horse here to honest. Move on and find someone who IS interested in you.
Mandy x
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reader, Agneta +, writes (7 December 2012):
It is hard to be rejected or ignored, I know! But for every letter you send to her and for every call you make that is not answered upon, you will hurt yourself more and more every time. For some reason she has decided that you are not the one for her. It doesn't have to be that she didn't like you but there might be another man in her life. Or she is just not ready to have anything right now.
The only way to stop hurting is to stop contacting her and accept that this time you couldn't have the one you wanted. In return, when your heart is clean again, it will be open for somebody else. Somebody who loves you back. That will make you more happy than you now is sad.
Be strong!
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