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writes:My boyfriend and I were dating for 3yrs, I helped him financial when needed for his mother's meds or and family members including his kids etc.everything went well or so I thought.he will be retiring the armed force in Feb next yr,and now all of a sudden he tells me he will be leaving for a job don't know where,but he will be staying there for good. Several months ago he has been lying to me when I called his ohone and he doesn't pick up,which is so unusual. the funny thing is he used to call and text me everyday,but all that minimized to 1 call or text or none,unless I called him. He told me he wants me to find someone who appreciate me. and don't do nomore for his mother.It hurts so bad, I needed to know if he has already seeing someone,or maybe intereted into someone else.If that's the case I will swallow the pain and move on.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 December 2012):
 It really does not matter if there is someone else at this point honey he clearly does not want you.
you need to swallow the pain and move on.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (7 December 2012):
 I dont think finding out if he was seeing someone else will achieve Anything, because it wont change anything And will just make you feel worse. He has made it clear that He no longer feels the same about you And you cant force him to change his mind and love you again, so I think you need to Count yourself lucky that he was honest and broke it off with you, let go of the relationship and keep your options open to new relationships.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 December 2012):
 I don't know if he is seeing anyone, but he is ending it with you and telling you to move on.
Seems a little iffy to dump you so unceremoniously after 3 years together.
I'm sorry.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (7 December 2012):
 I agree, he is telling you in a roundabout way that things are over and he is moving on.
It's irrelevant whether he has found someone else or not, he just hasn't had the balls to tell you verbally that he has ditched you but his actions say he has.
I am so sorry he didn't tell you straight, some people are just cowards.
Don't look for closure, cut the cord, move on and find yourself a new man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2012): Hi, sounds like he has moved on and is telling you to do the same.
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