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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok first off I'm a single guy and this is something that just happened I didn't plan it. I have a married female friend I have recently reunited with, a few weeks ago she came to see me at my house to watch our favorite shows. She's always told me her and her hubby had emotional and intimacy problems, but I assumed I was just a shoulder to cry on. We shared some kisses and hugs that night then she left. The next week same thing. We talked about it and agreed not to talk about it. But now I really care about her and want to make her happy. She constantly sends me photos of herself and we talk everyday. How do I perceive this? Is she into me? I've never been in this situation and need some advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2012): dont go there please. do you really want to break up a home? she is a cheater, and a liar. like the previous aunts and uncles here have said if she is unhappy in her marriage, let her get out first. you will be surprised at what kind of lies she probably is telling you. i was in a love triangle, i was the one being cheated on, and he had everything he could possably want in the marriage. as soon as a young chickie came along and showed some interest he cheated on me. and i wish i could have been a fly on the wall to hear what he had to say was wrong with the marriage. trust me you dont want to be the one to break someones heart, think about how you would feel if the situation was reversed.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 December 2012):
 WHAT a cheating liar she is.
does her husband know you two are sharing kisses and hugs and that she's sending you photos and having an emotional affair with you? NO? then she's lying to him....
How do you perceive this? EASY.. she's a cheating liar.
Is she into you? DOES IT MATTER?
IF you allow yourself to be drawn into this mess with a married woman you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.
IF she really wants you she needs to leave her husband for you OR get his permission to have an affair with you. (either works for me)
Be advised however that since she is cheating on her spouse with you, it's probably that when she tires of you she will cheat on you and you will have to accept it since you have already shown her that cheating is acceptable in your eyes.
End of conversation.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2012): Don't go there! Anybody that is married and trying to have an affair is bad news. Just like a man, she is not t going leave. I dare you to ask why is she still married if she is unhappy. One of the following will be her answer. I don't have the financial resources to make it on my own. I don't want to hurt the kids, he's abusive I'm afraid and finally its against my morals to divorce. I double dog dare you to ask. If you receive any of this answers or a variation there of, you are wasting your time. Youre single. There are plenty of single ladies out there. You are putting yourself at risk for disaster. Best of luck to you
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 December 2012):
 WHY put yourself in to the middle of a triangle, REGARDLESS of how this woman feels about you???????
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female
reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (7 December 2012):
 She may well have feelings for you, but I wouldnt risk making a move on her as a. She might not feel the same way, and b. Stating the obvious, shes married! But if you dk both have feelings for each other it would be a waste not to act on them and carry on being unhappy. So next time shes over you need to have an honest talk with her. However if shes not interested, be aware that your friendship could be lost, so you need to decide whether its worth the risk.
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