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female
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26-29,
*iver_Sawyer
writes:I am in a relationship and my partner can be easily annoyed and agitated! If I try and tease her or make a joke she can get really defensive and angry and that just makes me angry and agitated! I love her but it can make me feel bad and I feel that its all my fault. I don't know what to do because when I try and talk to her about it, she gets angry and defensive! it feels that I can't talk to her without getting my head bitten off! What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Candid Cally  +, writes (8 December 2012):
Are you certain your teasing and jokes are clever and amusing? Or are they really clever and amusing to you because you are making a joke out of her?
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 December 2012):
 Her reactions are hers and not your fault.
You say you love her... why? what about her do you love
her cranky personality
her inability to take teasing
her defensiveness
you are very young and it's hard to know when it's time to leave... but in this case I think that perhaps it's best if you two part ways.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (7 December 2012):
 It sounds like a total personality clash to me. You should be able to relax and be yourself in a relationship, not constantly walking on eggshells. You may love her, but maybe it isnt meant to be.
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