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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I met this guy a year ago online on a dating website. We're getting along so well. We are from the same country but he lives abroad! So we have the same cultural background and everything. At the beginning he used to call more than once each day . Later his calls became less. When I told him if he lost his interest in me he admits his love to me and said he's just busy. He even sent me flowers in Valentine's Day. I have a serious problem to show my feelings to him. I don't want to be disappointed later. I wrote a poem about him even but I'm so hesitant to send it to him. I know that everyone will tell me I have to take a risk but I'm not sure. He never said anything about planning to come over here to meet me in person. Should I send him the poem?! Or should I wait till we see each other in person?Many thanks
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 June 2011):
 I take it the both of you have never spoke to each other about the future, as you do not know if he has plans to come over and meet you. A year of talking is quite a long time. I am surprised the future has never came up in conversation. I think you both need to see if it is going to go anywhere because it would be a shame to waste your time if he has no intentions of ever meeting you. This really is a conversation that needs to be spoke about.
As for the poem well I don't see any harm in sending it to him. He has told you how he feels. But just remember that it has been an on line relationship up until now and you are writing to a computer. Just remember that you don't know this man yet as you have never met him and spent quality time together. Therefore just be careful that you don't get hurt.
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