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writes:Ok,This is really complecated,I'm having a crush on a guy who's like 20 years older than me.I don't know why? I had like 100 crushes and all were of My age.But this is new. I never had a relationship and My father and mother got devorced and he left me with my mom,but that's just 2 years before when I'm 18.Mybe I'm seeing a father in this guy?but he's 4 years younger than my father. I feel like I fell in love,I want to see him allway,wana be near him,wants his attention.People say young girls like older guys cz they are mature,but this guy is not,he's irresponsible and still single and like a kid.But he's really intelligent,it's never boring to be with him.I get mad with him sometimes but can't be mad for a long time. and I'm emberaced about my feelings. What if he finds out? and i'm having dreams like hugging him and kissing,I'm ashamed of my self,he doesn't treat me like that. and i'm not getting interrested now in any other guy. And I get jelous when he's going out with his other girlfriends and maybe he's dating them and so what?but I'm crazy,I have no idea. He's not the perfect guy,not my prince charming we are different,but I still want him. I'm stupid aren't I'm? :///
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): I'd say let him know an go for it. At the time, my girl of 18 an 18 yrs age gap, met an was her, initially wanting to hook up her persistence prevailed lol. Now 4 yrs together, she through college an we have a son an life couldn't be better for us two. Her father just a few years older then I as well. We all have a Great relationship together. "Age is just a number" hard to argue that when I have a great relationship. Besides,
times have changed. Your normal:) Do what YOU want to do for U. We all
preach this so do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): Thanks a lot!!! yes I think I can't bare rejection. I had crushes,for my age But I was never interrested to begin any relationship. I don't like this guys bad qualities,but drawned to him amazingly,I'm irritated and wants to change him and at the same time,likes him a lot. like butterflies in Tummy. My brain says Stop thinking rubbish and be normal,but my heart wants to be with him. I hope I meet a guy as soon as I starts going to collage and no Heart- brain fights and not to feel ashamed of my self.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2011): your not stupid in the slightest. There is so much emphasis on the oedipus complex psychology side of age difference relationship analysis that people can easily make you feel like a freak. Your not,this is totally normal
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