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writes:so, where to start, i am 17 and am in love with a man who is quite a lot older than me (he is 38) and ironicly i met him through his wifes' parents and he brother, who are all family friends. i see him on a friday night when i get dinner at the chip shop he owns and thoses are the single greatest 10 mins of my week, i cant stop thinking about him, help!!!!, my close family (mum, dad, gran) know i like him and tell me its just a crush but i cant seem to forget him. p.s i dont want to stop seeing him just stop likeing him
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reader, icanhelp +, writes (7 July 2011):
icanhelp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the help guys, i kind of realises that i need to stop seeing him, but i guess i just need someone to tell me
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 June 2011):
 This man is unavailable. As soon as you find someone more interesting you will switch over to the new person. This is just a crush as the man is unavailable and you don't know him either. You spend 10 minutes admiring him once a week, and that's it.
Just focus your attention on someone else and you should be able to move on quickly, and then have a laugh about this later on.
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