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writes:Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok because i didn't realize i liked her until the latter half of the year, so about the end of March she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but from what i gathered she didn't seem too upset about it (i could be wrong though). Anyway once she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend i really wanted to ask her out but i didn't for a number of reasons 1) we were close to final exams 2) i was worried that she only saw us as friends because we had walked to class together sometimes (just the two of us) and i would usually ask her if she wanted to join my roommate and i for dinner if i saw her sitting alone. So, now school is over and we are on summer vacation and i still want to ask her out but we live in different cities and we probably won't see each other until school starts up again in September, but i have her on Facebook, so how can i drop hints to let her know that i like her and how can i prepare for possibly asking her out in september?any help is greatly appreciated, thanks!!
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (30 June 2011):
 STEP ONE-Just talk to her now as a friend.
Conversation is pretty good way of saying you like someone.
Have conversation on the PHONE, not text or computer.
Tell Girl you are looking forward to seeing her in Fall.
STEP TWO-WAIT UNTIL SEPT.
STEP THREE-SEE GIRL. Ask out on date.
STEP FOUR-ENJOY.
No games, no hints, no "reservations for Sept."
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 June 2011):
 By the way: NEVER DROP HINTS. Always speak your mind, shoot straight, say what you mean and do what you say you'll do.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (30 June 2011):
You don't know how she sees you. Try to become a closer friend first, get to know her, bla bla bla, and then you'll know whether you should make a move.
Her going away could be a good thing. Try to stay in touch with her while she's home. If she seems to WANT to stay in contact with you, well, maybe...
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