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writes:I honestly feel like i,m losing everything. My man stop talking to me so I,ve assumed we're finished and if that is not bad enough a close family friend and my man's best friend told me that he shagged my best mate a month ago. I feel so betrayed by my best friend we,ve been friends for almost 18 years now! I feel so hurt and betrayed and they don't even know I Know yet!!! I have two people who don't even know each other telling me the same story so I know it has to be true. As sadistic as it sounds how do I go about this like I really want to hurt them the way they hurt me. What can I do???
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (20 August 2011):
If you hurt them you will only regret what you have done. You need to take your leave of both of them.
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 the best revenge is to get over it so you can look those bastards in the eye and smile so hard you nearly have to laugh. the best way to get over it is to develop other interests so that you have other things to think about. and I'm not talking boyfriends girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): I experienced the same humiliation with my ex, only difference is he shagged every single one of my 'friends' behind my back! Like you I wanted the best revenge possible! So you know what I did? I cut every single person off completly and stayed with my family, who were a great support. I cut off my facebook, binned my phone and Instead of going out every weekend I scrimped and saved for a long holiday, I used that holiday to pamper myself and remind myself that I was too good for any of those people.When I got back I felt great, and I looked great too!My ex-boyfriend and my ex group of friends were so envious that I was happy without them, each one of them sick with jealousy. Yes they made catty comments about how I was now 'too good to hang around with them' but its all in sheer jealousy! They each got used and abused and my now ex is suffering because he knows he will never find another me!Moral of the story? Put yourself first, do whatever it takes you heal yourself and don't give a second thought for this trash - 18 years and she sleeps with your boyfriend? What a sad waste! Remember YOU didn't waste it, SHE DID!
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