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*oedestiny
writes:were both married still @ this moment. we are working in the same company. we both admitted we are attracted to each other before he got married and i was battling my husband infidelity and lack of sense of responsibilty. we shared txt messages, calls, and few occassion of dates. he cares for me that's a fact and im hoping on the other hand it will b us. both our spouse are way back home now. he is still in touch with her wife and im trying to work out my failed marriage bec of our child. my question are, is it ok to have communication with him considering were married? im jealous with his wife, is that normal? does he loves me or its just sexual thing? :( please enlighten me.
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reader, moedestiny +, writes (20 August 2011):
moedestiny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim sorry about the confusions. rest assured its not a made up story just the heck of it. i got into it after finding out of his infidelity. this guy im seeing now tho we been vocal to eac other feelings nothing has been done only when that incident occured. but thank you guys for all the nice messages.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): OP i have a suggestion for you:
Why dont u combine all of your questions and then post one comprehensive question.
You have 3 current questions and u are not linking them. This means that u are isolating each incident/ situation and u expect the Aunts to give u comprehensive advice without knowing the actual true story.
By posting so many different questions (without the proper info) u lose credibility.
LoveGirl
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 You don't sound very committed to fixing your marriage, so you should do the right thing and get divorced. Your husband doesn't sound that committed either. Don't stay together for your child's sake, that just never works. Until the other guy has left his wife, you need to stay out of their relationship. If he loves you, why did he get married to someone else????
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): if you're trying to work on your failed marriage then you have to stop contact with this other guy. If you continue staying in contact, you are working against yourself when you're trying to work on your marriage.
If your marriage has already failed, then end it cleanly by getting a divorce and moving on to the next phase of your lives.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (20 August 2011):
If you are trying to work out your marriage then this has to stop immediately.
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