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Why is her vagina so loose?

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Question - (19 August 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2011)
A male Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

so the other night me i was engaging in some foreplay with my fiance i got her to orgasm a couple of times, now not ever in our 3 year relationship has she let me finger her because she says that nails scratch her inside and it kills. anyhow this night she let me finger her. i started with just 2 fingers and once she was wet enough put 4 in all at once. i didnt notice at first but i had accidently put my entire hand up to my wrist inside of her. after getting her to another orgasm through her gspot i asked her how many fingers she thought i had in her and answered 3 or 4. my gf has always had a fairly loose vagina and sex often takes a long time for me to orgasm i am just under 7 inches long and 5.5 in circumference.

my question for you: is that normal for a girls vagina to be that loose and not even notice how much is inside them or is it from her ex bfs 10 inch dick or that she has slept with 32 other men?

these things had never bothered me before but now i just cant stop wondering

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011):

Hi as your tag is recent I will give you my thoughts on this. Maybe your girl was having such a good time in your expert hands she had fantastic orgasms and then became very relaxed. This would allow you to get deeper inside than you thought you could. It is not uncommon for woman to open up whilst relaxed and allow the entire hand to be inserted inside them. Given the fact that this is what is meant to happen in child birth. The organ can open and stretch to accommodate a baby's head. You should be proud that you have bought her to such a state of ecstasy that this was possible. Another fact is that a woman's organ can also become as tight as anything and hold up a weight of considerable size just by gripping a small ball with her vagina. So why worry about her past relationships. You sound very immature and inadequate so either wise up or get out of the relation ship.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011):

The conventional wisdom is that being with "large" men won't stretch a woman. The thinking seems to be that if they can pass a baby through during child birth, there's no way any man would be large enough to stretch her.

But, even if that's wrong, the question is what difference does it make if she was born that way, got that way from playing with large toys, etc.? I doubt that there's a man on the planet who's as big as your hand. Even if she's been with 32 men, the odds of her having been with a man that is a lot larger than you is small. Despite what you read on the internet about women claiming to have a boyfriends with 10 inchers, in reality one that large is one in many thousands.

But, even if she has been with a freakishly large guy in the past, there's nothing you can do about it. If she decides she needs that and it's important to her, she will have to go look for it. Let her decide what she wants. You can find someone who likes you the way you are even if it were to turn out she doesn't.

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A male reader, serenity80 United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2011):

It definitely isn't to do with her past. Women have varying size, and also, they can become looser when they are very excited and in the mood. See it as a good thing.

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A female reader, adamantine Australia +, writes (19 August 2011):

adamantine agony auntSome women are just naturally looser than others. I would suggest looking up kegel excercises. They help a lot.

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