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writes:I really miss him and don't know what to do. I met this lad and fell for him, I knew I liked him the moment he spoke to me. He's very good looking, funny, caring and exactly my type. We messaged eachother for ages and talked on phone and eventually met up. It was perfect and I rembered why I had fell for him. The trouble was after drinks etc I accidnetly told him I loved him, I don't know where it came from,I don't, I do really like him, probably more than I've liked anyone I've dated but I wouldnt say I love him, I lpove ebing with him though- the words just slipped out. He just smiled at me and cuddled me when I said it and told me I didnt know him to know that yet. I tried to back track but he just kissed me and I feel like an idiot for saying it. The day I left we we went walk together and he held my hand in silence and wouldnt loook at me then when I left he told me he'd miss me but he then laughed and made a joke of it. I know he's very popualr with the girls and hes very confident and good looking and knows it but hes lovely and so kind. He tried it on with me but respected it when I wouldn't have sex with him, I was tempted but I want more than that, I know its not relaity really as we live so far away but I was so scared of getting hurt, although I think I already have been. I've text him and he text back but has been really jokey with me and hasnt said about meeting up again even though I've hinted and hasnt replied to my last text. I really miss him though and don;t know what to do, I don't want to seem desperate by texting him again but I cant get him out my head and how perfect it was being with him. I'm scared I've ruined everything by saying that and don't know what he thinks as I wouldn't sleep with him if it seems like I actually do really like him and I'm scared I;ve messed things up. I just want to be with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo we didnt meet on the internet, we met on holiday
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): I take it you met on the internet - by what you have said?
Well I guess he and you both wanted different things from the meeting - you were starry eyed and he probably expected sex, certainly didnt expect you to say you loved him! At least you won't bump into him as he's so far away so I would leave it, don't text again.
Let him lead, if you don't hear from him you will know it wasn't meant to be.Keep busy, distract yourself - don't worry about things you said to him either, we all do daft things.At least you didn't have sex, if you had, you would be feeling alot worse.
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