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writes:This is a bit of a weird question but anyway i'v just come back from a weeks holiday in greece.I went with my brother and my dad,we decided to go to the waterpark one day. While i was on one of the rides i noticed this guy who was my age or older staring at me. As the day went on i kept seeing him and we'd exchange flirty glances and smiles.He made me feel special and excited inside. This is probaly gonna sound pretty pathetic but i cant get him out of my head. I keep thinking about him even though im back home now.When we first saw each other i felt something,i dont really know what love feels like or what its like to meet your soulmate but it felt like he was the one.Im a very shy person so i didnt speak to him or anything.I dont know his name or even if he's english but i need to somehow stop thinking about him.I know i'll never see him again but i cant get him out of my head. How can i love someone i dont even know..?
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 It's not love, it's your first taste of what you may have heard about, chemistry. Great feeling hey! Don't worry about trying to forget about it, enjoy it. You will feel it again, possibly several times in fact. That chemistry is what attracts a person to one person and not another, and then when you get to know each other, thats when love may, or may not, begin. Just relish these feelings; and I bet, no matter how old you get, you'll remember this boy, with a secret little smile on your face. xx
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (20 August 2011):
Well, you can only love someone or something so much that does not love you back.
And if you really liked him so much, you would have found out who he is and how to get in touch with him, etc.
Love includes a LOT of communication. One-way love is more fear than love. Thus the preoccupation. It is more fear-based than love-based. You were afraid to talk to him, you were afraid of his rejections. Now you are afraid to stop thinking of him. You are afraid that you will never see him again.
Find a real, local person that you are not afraid to speak to and start talking to him. Build a real relationship. This will make you grow and getting over this other thing will just be a pleasant side effect.
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