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My girlfriend always turned me down of sex

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Question - (19 August 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2011)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, *harles_Bowen writes:

I had a girlfriend we've bin together for d past 6 month i love her and she really loves me,she prefer romance to sex bt anytime i ask of sex she turn me down,what shall i do and i want to have sex witg her

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011):

ever hear of the wind and the sun that made a bet? they made a bet that each of them could have the person below remove their jacket. the wind blew and blew, and the harder the wind blew on this person the tighter the grip on the jacket. finally the sun said that now is his turn to try. so the sun shone gently and began to slowly warm the person, and that is when the jacket came off. you will have to warm her up slow land not be like the howling wind trying to force their way. make out with her play with her and if she still says no then respect her hold her and let her know that you love her. you want her to be your lover then take the time, and if you can show that you do love her she in return will respect you as well. i have been married for 11yrs now and in the best relationship of my life. all because i took the time to show her that i could look at her past my hormones. (btw that was very tough in the beginning, but well worth it) and good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011):

ever hear of the wind and the sun that made a bet? they made a bet that each of them could have the person below remove their jacket. the wind blew and blew, and the harder the wind blew on this person the tighter the grip on the jacket. finally the sun said that now is his turn to try. so the sun shone gently and began to slowly warm the person, and that is when the jacket came off. you will have to warm her up slow land not be like the howling wind trying to force their way. make out with her play with her and if she still says no then respect her hold her and let her know that you love her. you want her to be your lover then take the time, and if you can show that you do love her she in return will respect you as well. i have been married for 11yrs now and in the best relationship of my life. all because i took the time to show her that i could look at her past my hormones. (btw that was very tough in the beginning, but well worth it) and good luck.

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A female reader, Vanessa_Twinkle United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2011):

Maybe she´s just nnot ready then, it can take time try not pressure her she might surprise you sooner than you think. Losing your virginity is really important to a girl so it can take time and she might be nervous and scared try and understand and you should defo talk to her and tell her your not only interested in that.

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A female reader, Charles_Bowen Nigeria +, writes (19 August 2011):

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Charles_Bowen agony auntShe insists she is a virgin and am just crazy about her,she is really sexy,i don't know why she keeps turning me down

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A female reader, Vanessa_Twinkle United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2011):

Talk to her, ask her why she reacts like that maybe she´s worried or nervous about something.Try not to pressure her or she´ll think your only interested in the sex,have an honest talk with her and also tell her how you feel when she does that.

Good luck :)

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