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writes:I'm 17 and I've been dating this guy for 3 months and we have recently gotten to second base. He told me he would stop if I didn't feel comfortable, but I like it. The only problem is that I don't want him to think I'm too easy. Are we being to fast? Should I let him touch me?
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 If you are ready, and he hasn't pressured you, then I believe that having been dating for 3 months, doesn't make you 'easy'. He sounds like a descent person, so he won't think you're 'easy'. Just remember to use protection!!! :-)
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (20 August 2011):
If this is a morality question then I believe that you will find many who answer that you should not be having sex at such a young age, if that is what this is leading to.
That being said, at 3 months I would not say you were "easy" at all. Easy is more like within the first week. If all he wanted was sex he would not have waited this long.
I will say that you do have a gentleman if he said that he would stop if you didn't feel comfortable.
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reader, MrMcgalliard +, writes (20 August 2011):
Wellll, obviously you're going to have a wide variety of opinions on this question, most saying yes you're moving to fast, yes you're too young but really as long as he's your age and you care for each other, go for it. Im 19 and I wish I would have played around more than I did at that age...you only live once, but with that being said you need to be safe, theres nothing worse than having fun and realizing how stupid it was, so just think it through, good luck.
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