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writes:Hi! Me and my boyfreind have been together for 6 years and have 2 gorgeous kids together, we have a great relatioship and I love him to pieces we got togeth when I was 16, he is 6 yrs older but its never really been an issue! The thing is he has 3 kids from a previous relationship and was married as well, him and his ex barely see eye to eye and from what I know she doesn't like me and never has anything nice to say! We have never actally spoke, I have been told from people that she has said i'I stole her man' which isn't true as they had spiplit 1 year before me and my partner got together and she has been with someone else till now!! What I don't understand is she won't give him a divorce! And still uses his name!! And refuses to use her own,She makes out she hates him and don't like me! I really don't undertand this does anyone have an opinion on what her problem might be?? Pease help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): Once a couple have been seperated 5 years he can divorce her without her permision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2011): So they had 3 children by the time they split - when he was 21. Very young.And now he has another 2. Thats alot of responsibility!Anyway, maybe he could divorce her - not sure how many years they need to have been split up but am sure he could get a quickie soon if not already, they have been apart for 7 years.He should seek advice.She may want to use the name after divorce, so she has the same a the children. As for liking you, she doesn't have to really. Whatever she says about you splitting them up is only her trying to justify why they split, blaming somebody, (you have her Ex and his children remember) but if it isn't true then don't worry about it.She's young with 3 children and is a single parent, it can't be an easy life, I hope your partner has the children overnight and regular contact - for the childrens sake and hers. Maybe you could arrange to meet her and talk?
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