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writes: Hi.Next year many of my friends from uni will be taking a year out on a placement year / internship.I'm not sure that I want to do one as I'm thinking of going into teaching and I'm too much of a wimp anyway.The point is I went to uni so I wouldn't miss out and to make friends. I will graduate before my friends and leave the uni before they return. My concern is that I will lose their friendship as they attach themselves to others during their year away, and when they return to live with other people. What should I do to stay connected to them?Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, hugs +, writes (20 August 2011):
hugs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice.
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (20 August 2011):
Hiyaaaa,
Firstly your not a wimp coz its a scary world but if you really wanna to into teaching do it. My philosophy in life is "don't say what if, instead say what you did". No point dreaming about something you wanna do when you could do it!
Secondly get your uni friends numbers and you can get in touch with them via phone, or social networking sites. Arrange a day where you guys can go out for a drink or just a dinner or something and just have a laugh and get each other numbers or add and just go from there really.
Don't worry about losing in touch coz if there your good friends they will always think about you and plus don't be afraid to make new friends and experience new things everyday. But don't make yourself sound clingy coz thats what can piss friends off so you know facebook or twitter them, phone them once or week or text them to see how they are.
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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