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*loridaboy15
writes:So im really good friends with this guy (he's 19 and I'm 22), who i believe is in the closet (says he's interested in women on facebook and has had not serious girlfriends in the past, and never really talks about it.) He always tells me how good looking i am and i always catch him looking at me. We usually text everyday if we can up until night. He always uses tons of smileys. He always accepts to for the both of us to hang out and get drunk. When this happens we usually end up making out and stuff. When he's drunk he's so touchy-feely with me too. But when he's sober he told me he would never do such things with a guy. We did have a "sober chat" and he did mention to me that he is attracted to "certain" men and that i was really attractive to him ...but he said he would never have a relationship with a guy because he really wants to have a family with kids...and finds gay sex repulsive. Not sure if he's just saying that to cover up himself for now? And the first night we got drunk together we started making out and that escalated into him pulling down my pants and him giving me a hand job (I did in fact stop it before it went any further because i knew that he had a girlfriend at the time.) I myself am bisexual, but I am in the closet. I did talk about this to him...that I found him attractive also. He asked me why I find him attractive and I told him that I just do, there's no real explanation! I'm guessing he was just shocked?So finally, I'm just really confused!?? He and I continue to flirt with each other...but I'm not sure when the time will be right for me to make a move... he also hugs me so tight when I leave him... I really am just ultimately confused. And he has now moved away to Kentucky for college so I am really depressed, but he will be back many times to visit. So I really want to figure out what's going on. Thank you!
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reader, floridaboy15 +, writes (5 October 2011):
floridaboy15 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your response!!
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reader, calamari  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 this all sounds very very confusing!
it sounds like he is a mixture between bisexual, horny and attracted to you.
if you are finding it hard to get a straight answer then the advances he has been trying to make on you eg. hand job, seem to suggest he wants you at least physically
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