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writes:Hey all, so here's my story. About a year ago my long distance girlfriend had left me. And less then a week later was in a relationship with another dude. Now she said that she had no feelings for him when she was with me, and I believed her completely. But her actions tell me something totally different. Now flash forward to now and I still think about her everyday more then I should be. It sucks knowing that someone you care about so much and wanted a life with doesn't even consider you a person. I miss her terribly and there's nothing that I can do about it. I seem to be stuck in this emotional rut, I think that I can get better and better but when I think I just feel like sometimes i'm back in square one.Recently, I was accepted to a local school in her city, it provides me a chance to reinvent myself and to explore new options in my life in terms of my career and education. Part of me is really excited to go to this school, but a major part of me wants to be in the same city as her just to be close to her. And I wish I could say that I applied to this school for the sole purpose of improving myself, but it would be a lie. Now I know that she doesn't miss me at all especially since now that she's engaged and very much in love with her new guy. Part of me thinks that she left me because I wasn't living near her. And maybe I'm trying to be near her with me going to this school. The truth is I could improve myself if I go to a local school near me and probably save a bit of money. However, I do love the city that she lives in more then my own city. This whole situation has left me sooo very confused and I just need something like advice to help me clear a path in what I need to do. Sorry if this sounds a little whiney but I've been hurting over this issue for a long time now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, I'm still a little bit confused about the whole thing. I mean the school is okay and all and I would love to try something new in a new city but I just can't seem to seperate my feelings. And I don't know if I just want to go there for her or just want to go there for school. Looking deep down I think going there for her might be my main reason, yet its still a little hazy and confusing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea very true, but the sad truth is I have been thinking about her everyday for the past year already, I miss her terribly. Sometimes it feels like that she was that special person on my life and never seeing her face again just makes me incredibly sad. I have seen pics of her and her bf as well. Basically they're engaged and have been dating for a lil less then a year. I definitely shouldn't know this but when you miss someone it's hard not want to know her life.
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