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I'm separated from my husband and he's asking me for help on a dating website!

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Question - (19 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

hi,

i've been separated for 5 years and only just sorting out a divorce.

My ex hubby has bi-polar, which makes him not always see situations as they are and causes him severe depression when he's on a low.

He was in a relationship for the past 3 years with a girl who also has bi-polar, but he ended the relationship a few months ago because he realised he didnt love her. In fact, he seems to love me still and has asked me back but i've made it clear we can't get back together and i'm settled into a relationship with my bf of just over a year.

He called me last night to ask for help, he wants me to go over to his house tomorrow and help him out with getting going on a dating site! He's not computer literate although he's managed to join a dating site.

I told my bf and he says he's wanting me back, he could be right! and he's being disrespectful towards my bf.

I want him to meet someone else but feel this is weird to be asking me .. his ex wife for help getting going on a dating site!

how should i deal with this? He has no friends or close family. except our children who are in their twenties!

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (19 August 2011):

RedAthena agony auntTry saying this.

"No." Works great.

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