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writes:My ex boyfriend and i we're very good friends but now i'm pregnant and it seems he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. It's been like 3 years that i ended my relationship with him and we decide to be friends but he'd say stay in love me (or that's what he said) by then I had already started a relationship with my current boyfriend and father of my baby and he started a new relationship too, everything was fine. I told him i was pregnant and he reacted well but now he doesn't want to talk to me. Should i talk to him about this or not?, i miss him, he was my best friend before and after the breakup.
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reader, chocoholicforever  +, writes (20 August 2011):
Unless there are other reasons for your ex becoming distant (maybe he's busy with other things in his life), he may be feeling uncomfortable for any number of reasons. If it bothers you that the friendship has changed, you can try talking to him about it but respect his right to feel the way he does, don't try to persuade him to feel differently, just try to understand how he feels and adjust your relationship according to what he can handle.
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reader, Vanessa_Twinkle  +, writes (19 August 2011):
Maybe he still has feelings for you, or accepting the fact your having a baby from another man is bothering him,i think you should tell him how your feeling and that his friendship is really important to you, maybe he´ll tell you why he´s being so distant too.
Good luck and congratulations on the baby :)
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reader, Mariab +, writes (19 August 2011):
 If your ex still has feelings for you then its not easy for him to accept that you are having a baby with someone else. You have to allow him space to deal with what he is going through. I would just send him a message and tell him that he has been a good friend and you would appreciate his understanding but however you respect his decision. Leave the ball in his court. Good luck and congratulations on the pregnancy! xx
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